Controversial rules for marriage that works

A woman is powerless against the man she cannot control or manipulate. If she cannot move you with her body, her tears, mood swings or drama, she becomes weak. She has nothing else to fight with. Nobody fears rejection more than a woman who is rejected by the man she actually

A Lot of Nigerians Don’t Know What to Do With Their Lives If we are being sincere, many Nigerians are walking around with a quiet confusion in their hearts. Not because they are lazy or clueless, but because this country has a way of pushing people into directions that don’t

Actually, there’s no place in the Bible that says BBL is a sin. I’ve not seen it. This person is right that the Bible doesn’t mention BBL specifically, just like it doesn’t specifically mention polygamy as a “sin.” But Scripture gives principles, warnings, and boundaries that

I know I promised to write about “Rub & Shine” please forgive me I got inspired to talk about something else. THE FOOLISHNESS IN THE BBL CRAZE There are many episodes in the global circus of human behavior, But the BBL epidemic deserves its own documentary. A full Netflix

The world watches your face more than your words. Keep it straight when it matters. Let others shout, panic, or stumble. A calm, unreadable face is power in its purest form….. it forces them to guess, overthink, and lose control. Reacting is easy. Mastering yourself? That’s

This morning, one of my staff asked me, “Dr. Slim, why do you always hire only beautiful ladies and handsome guys?” I just smiled….. but that question reminded me of something deeper. It reminded me of The Uncomfortable Truth: Why Birthing a Beautiful Child Still Determines

Some days ago, our supreme leader Àgbà John Doe made mention of the importance of harnessing govt financial instruments and a lot of you were asking how you can get onboard. Sit down and read! I will restrain myself from digressing between now to Monday. I will take my time to

Make Money in Nigeria Without Working Series: Firstly, The FGN Bonds Strategy Big Investors Don’t Want You to Know There is a secret in Nigeria. A secret the rich quietly use. A secret the government created. A secret that pays you every single quarter whether you work or not.

The biggest financial trap is not poverty, it’s comfort. The moment you get comfortable with a little income, you stop chasing the discipline that creates real wealth. If you don’t outgrow your financial habits, you will outlive your financial strength. Upgrade your mindset

Make Money in Nigeria Without Working Series(PART 3): Nigeria has fooled many people into thinking money only comes from sweat, stress and suffering. Omo, If you’re not waking up by 4am and returning home looking like boiled yam, they think you don’t deserve wealth. Meanwhile,

In 2020, one young man left Lagos for Abuja with nothing but a backpack, a dream and that stubborn Nigerian hope that refuses to die. Lagos had drained him. He went there believing opportunities were everywhere. But the city humbled him. He slept on friends’ floors… then on

The private jet Aliko Dangote flies around with, who owns it? Aliko Dangote? To be rich, copy the rich I am very sure if you shake Aliko Dangote today, you can't find $100 in his name Same for Elon Musk, shake him, you can't find $100 in his name But you as an equatorial big

Unpopular truth: In most cases, women marry who's *available* and "good enough" at the right time, not who they truly love or desire most. Men, on the other hand, usually marry who they *want* and love, not just whoever's conveniently there. This dynamic explains a LOT

I wrote this when I clocked 50 last year, read and learn 50 at Last: 20 Lessons I Wish I Knew in My 20s 1. You’re Not Late—You’re Just Early for Your Time. Comparison is a killer. Everyone’s clock is different. I gained admission at 30 and still made it count. 2. Poverty

For you to come out and say this openly, imagine what has been discussed and agreed upon in private? I once did a few political party caucus meetings in 99 with my late friend John Anenih when I was still idealistic about Nigeria and I quickly saw that these people didn't have

BARR. IKPEAMA: Why did you remain in the premises after the landlord gave you quit notice? TENANT: My Lord, I was still searching for alternative accommodation. He only told me orally to leave, so I did not believe he was serious. BARR. IKPEAMA: Why did he ask you to leave in the

When they move abroad as immigrants - they make friends based on visa categories. They don't even date below their visa categories. 😂 When they're on Twitter, the reiterate that stratification. small accounts vs big accounts. 💀 I reflect a lot on our ideological design, as a

I’m sure you’ve heard about Pastor Jerry Eze’s Foundation giving out $720,000 to 240 young entrepreneurs. God bless him for that. I love and respect the man. But here’s a lesson some churchgoers need to sit with. When it was time to select who got the money, Pastor Jerry, the