6 months post divorce. I’m reflecting on what I’m thankful for this Thanksgiving and I’m thankful for all of you. The encouragement, the positivity, the awareness, the love, the compassion, the understanding…thank you. Happy Thanksgiving!

I don't want to be strong I want abusers to be held accountable.

Seeing him speed date and scramble for a new supply; one right after another is so nauseating. There’s so much desperation it reminds me of a crab without a shell…searching for a shell to hide in.

On visitations, my ex now gaslights our child, talks bad about me, and drills child with questions. Don’t narcs have anything better to do? Why does he do this?!? We’re not together anymore so why? What’s the freaking point! So sad that my child has to go through this.

BIG FACTS!!!! (Except it’s spelt *Losers)

This is where in the beginning, some struggle with recognizing that they are being abused. Because you think “but he/she is so great on the good days” Eventually, those goods days begin to fade out. I would hang onto those great days, thinking it would get better.

2 years since divorce was finalized. No longer being trapped. It has taken me this long to tweet again. Wanna know why? I had to rebuild myself. Now I’m watching the cycle repeat itself. My ex doing the same shit to new women. It’s sad. I wish I could warn them.

You can always tell when a narcissist has found a new supply! Suddenly wants to attend church, actively trying to prove what a great parent they are, acts so empowered and better than usual! All a show! 🤡

Narcissists get new supply once the current love sees their true colors. There’s always a few on back up! Best believe that!

Almost a year later. Same ole shit. Narcissists are truly sick in the mind. Manipulating. Lying, Abusive, and Ugly.

Years ago when I started this journey, I was warned by others. Once you leave the narc, they begin to abuse and project on the kids. This is true. My child endures so much trauma during visitations.

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