Men who hate & despise women but feel entitled to one.... preferably one who doesn't speak or have needs or say 'no' when sex or food is demanded of them.

I wish my perpetrators would admit what they did, admit how deeply their violence impacts my life still from the injuries they caused, apologize knowing they cannot actually make it up to me, pay for my medical needs, and stop earning money as 'Catholic leaders.'

Abusing your partner is a choice. It is a choice that leads to breaking trust, to harming your connections, to depression, to suicide, to financial harm. Choose to change. safeandtogetherinstitute.com/choose-to-chan…

Tell your friends & loved ones that coercing & abusing their partner will lead to them always doubting they are loved & wanted. Help them change their behaviors which keep them from healthy connections. That is actual love & friendship.

Me: Tell me what happened when you assaulted your partner.

Him: I didn't like what she was saying to me so I started to leave. But then I told myself I wasn't going to let her 'make me feel like a punk.' So I went back in and that's when I hit her.

Me: So you made a choice to

Talk to people about their Violence. Tell them their behaviors will harm their relationships & intimate connections with their partner & children. youtu.be/ws9f5jYWNyE?si… via YouTube

All the 'population is tanking because women are feminists' are actually just men who are butthurt because women & girls won't be with them because they treat them like a maid & a sex slave & they miss the good old days of mindlessly abusing women & women couldn't leave them.

Don't have sex or be in relationship with men who behave as if they hate & despise women & see them as objects for sex, reproduction, domestic labor & a punching bag for their existential angst & emotion-driven violence.

How have you talked to your kids about your violence to them or to their other parent? How have you taken responsibility for the impact of your violence on those you perpetrated that violence on? This is the question every one should ask parents who perpetrate domestic abuse.

Abuse, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, physical violence, removing others rights to coerce them are all behaviors which destroy relationships & trust. The party abusing is responsible for the breakdown of that relationship.

It is love & concern to tell a loved one that their behaviors of coercion, verbal abuse, emotional abuse or physical violence are relationship-ending behaviors that they are responsible for. No one needs to stay in a relationship, and abuse ends relationships.

online stalking, verbal abuse of random women online is a pattern of behaviors that can be used as evidence in legal settings if your partner has abused you. Gather all the digital evidence of their abuse of you & others to submit as evidence of their pattern of behaviors.

It is a kindness to tell someone who is verbally, emotionally or physically abusing their family or loved ones that they will destroy their relationships with their behaviors & it is love to help them learn new behaviors that help preserve their connections to others

My experience of very religious parents is that they have zero curiosity & shut down knowing their kids because of their faith-based beliefs. It’s sad. It’s as if they can’t be human and relational if you believe differently than them. It’s really destructive to relationships.

Men: We HATE women & they must submit to us for sex, & servitude!
Women: Cool, go be with yourself & your Bro's
Men: WE ARE SO LONELY & YOU MUST MAKE US FEEL BETTER!
Women: Can't your dudes cook for you❓
Men: MEN WANT SEX!
Women: But you hate women 🤷‍♀️

IMAGINE BEING THIS SHALLOW