There was a time you didn’t know this chic. So why are you now chasing her like your life depends on it? Why are you acting like if she doesn’t talk to you, you won’t live the sun rise tomorrow morning? You were living your life good a year ago & guess what? You didn’t know

Delete her. Delete the messages. Delete the videos. Delete her contact. Move on.

1. Did someone betray you? Stay silent. 2. Is someone causing you pain? Stay silent. 3. Did someone fail to give you what you deserved, despite all your love? Stay silent. 4. Did someone insult you greatly? Stay silent. 5. Did someone deceive you? Stay silent. 6. Is someone

To attract what you want, you must learn to live without it. Excessive desire turns into neediness. And neediness destroys attraction. Don't let yourself become dependent on what you can't properly control. It will only hurt you in the end.

I read a quote that said "The faster that you do the hard things you want to avoid, the faster you will receive the good things you actually want" and that has changed my whole perspective.

My biggest prayer point to Yahweh right now is CLARITY. I need to know what to do, how to do it and when to do it.

Walking away from a relationship you wanted to work will haunt you. Because you didn’t just lose the person you buried a future you rehearsed every night in your head. You stayed when your gut told you to leave. You explained yourself a thousand times. You swallowed disrespect

James Clear on having high standards:

When you feel abandonment anxiety coming and the self-sabotage arising, say this: 1. They are busy 2. They did not leave. They will tell me if they want to 3. Space is necessary 4. They do not always have to respond 5. I didn’t do anything wrong 6. It is okay to be alone

Live the Pareto Principle lifestyle: Relationships. Who are the few people that have the most positive impact on my life? Spend more time with them. Priorities. What are the few actions that have the most positive impact on my day? Prioritize them. Learning. What are the few

Bro, control your urges. Stop allowing yourself to fall back into bad habits. Break the cycle. Chase real dopamine and become strong.

The fastest way to lose confidence is breaking small promises to yourself. Do what you said you would do. Always.

Your brain cares about your repetitions.

every time you say "this is new for me" instead of "i'm bad at this," you allow your brain space to learn instead of shut down. that's neuroplasticity in real time.

Know when to be an introvert If you weren't born into success, try to step out more, speak up more, reach out for handshakes more, put yourself out there and be a remarkable person to everyone you meet Don't be the guy/babe in the corner who doesn't talk to anyone

Showing up for yourself

One of the greatest cheat codes in life is assuming everything is happening in your favor. Lost the deal? You learned a lesson. Someone broke up with you? You dodged a bullet. When you start seeing life as happening FOR you instead of TO you your life will change.