Believe safe parents. Help them break the cycle of abuse & protect the world's children by improving the conditions in the #FamilyCourt system. — This benefits everyone. #pivottotheperpetrator
1/ Factually speaking in the #FamilyCourt case, #OJ was given custody of his children, despite 62 counts of #DV and #stalking (predictive factor for homicide). The New York Times is out of line publishing an article like this stating OJ's life was ruined. #PivotToThePerpetrator
Do you know him?
#pivottotheperpetrator — they are 100% responsible for the immense harm they are causing to the lives of others. #coercivecontrol #legalabuse #postseparationabuse
If a professional turns a blind eye to the perpetrators abuse they not only enable the abuser but are complicit.
Tackle. The. Perpetrator. #pivottotheperpetrator
Let's call this what it is: violence perpetrated by men against women, not just violence against women. #PivotToThePerpetrator #MakePerpetratorsVisible
Thank you ABC for highlighting this Emily Shapiro Let’s talk…
Anger, revenge, & resentment isn’t curable. It’s time to #pivottotheperpetrator .
Abusers don't abuse everyone. They are extremely calculating. They choose carefully who they can exploit & who they can use as pawns. Remember this when you choose not to believe survivors.
#pivottotheperpetrator #behindcloseddoors #domesticabuse #domesticviolence
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'Most anything the perpetrator does to the adult victim-survivor will be directly harming the child victims-survivors too, and the perpetrator is the one responsible for those harms to the children.' - Dr Emma Katz #CoerciveControl #PivotToThePerpetrator
When professionals avoid addressing perpetrators as parents & focus on managing survivors' responses to that abuse, it grooms children to accept future intimate partner abuse and blame themselves as victims. #PivotToThePerpetrator #StopBlamingMothers