Every man has to go through a phase in life where nothing matters to him. Just silence, his grind and fixing himself.

A girl I was dating told me I was the first guy she ever had unprotected sex with. I suspected she was lying obviously. But did I push back on her claim? No. Here’s the simple strategy I used to find out the truth. [Thread]

i think one of the most important qualities you need in a partner is a partner who is considerate. someone who can look at things from your point of view, who considers how you're feeling when things are rough, someone who creates a space for you to feel safe and vice versa

I used to think communication was the key until i realized comprehension is. You can communicate all you want with someone but if they don't understand you, it's silent chaos

Once i've addressed the situation multiple times and there’s no changed behavior, I stop caring. It’s above me now. People treat you exactly how they feel about you. You heard me & seen how it affected me the first time. At some point in life, you have to know your worth.

i respect a person who knows their energy is off and keeps their distance because they don't want to transfer it onto you. i don't think some people understand how real that is

Do you ever miss someone but never let them know because you have this feeling that they are doing just fine without you anyways?

Dudes who put off having a serious relationship because they want to “focus on the grind” are cringe because a loving woman will 100% make your life easier and give you purpose.

Times are tough, people. Times are tough! I have known & lived through tough times before, but these tough times in Nairobi are like we have never known before. Every call you receive is a money request, almost everyone is looking for a job & almost everyone is selling something.

Understand the power of selective silence, and only share strategically; it's peaceful and powerful. Stop telling people everything that is happening in your life. You're a man!

All the women I tried to date in my brokie days rejected me. I had a plan, but nobody was willing to build with me. Now, things are different. And I'm not owed any loyalty.

You chase = you’re creepy/perv Ask for reciprocation = you’re a princess You mind your business = your nonchalant You show kindness = you’re asking for sex Stop trying to talk to women generally and focus on building yourself = you’re gay Tell them the truth = you hate women