I’ve been contemplating couples therapy for weeks to mentally and emotionally start preparing for how a child will impact my relationship. Tonight, B brought it up out of nowhere so it’s clearly time to be proactive about this new phase that will be here in a blink of an eye.

This one gray hair in the front and center of my head will be the death of me.

Not me having a whole conversation with my MBF talking about a thing but never actually mentioning that thing for real like someone is monitoring our texts! Bahahahah!!!

Me: *Drives to McAlister’s Deli to grab a quick and healthy dinner* Also me: *Sees McDonald’s next door and goes to buy fries and a cheeseburger to go with my salad.* 😭😭😭

Tell me you love me without saying you love me! 🥰

The way me and B are both quick to say “let me talk to my partner and circle back” when we’re trying to get out of some ish or avoid buying some ish is hilarious.

Despite the fact that I don’t do musicals, I’m not mad at “Wicked” at all and will be seeing part II.

Not my heart being hurt over this Ravens loss. 😭 F***ing Mark Andrews! 🤦🏾‍♀️

Keeping it a buck, if it’s freezing outside I’m not going to the office. I may not even leave my house. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I’ve been feeling like crap all day. B made me the perfect salad for dinner and I feel so loved. 🥹

Thank God for the people I can lean on when I lose my s***. Literally couldn’t imagine life without any of them, but especially not Nat & YEAH JO!. 🫶🏾

I’m with DEON COLE 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

It’s fascinating how the people closest to you have a sixth sense when something isn’t right, even when they live hundreds or thousands of miles away. I’m grateful for lifelong relationships like these. They sustain me.

Things B and I have learned preparing for our baby shower: Negroes completely ignore the details listed on invitations and RSVP sites and have no shame asking you questions that they already have the answers to. 🤦🏾‍♀️

My poor RBD. I start fixating on things to do related to the baby and if we’re not together, I will rapidly text him a list of things to do with links and options and requests and timelines. 😅

I’m on my second to last flight for the next 6 months. That’s wild to even type.

Today I was reminded why I set the bar so high when it comes to colleagues transitioning into actual friends. The pregnancy hormones and emotions had me slipping. Never again.

To nap or not to nap? That is the question.

F*CK.

My RBD is second to none. Had me sobbing with the most thoughtful and unexpected first Mother’s Day gifts! 🥹