The most exhausting, unspoken burden on men in modern dating is that they are expected to be the sole architects of the relationship. A man is expected to initiate the first text, plan the dates, fund the experiences, orchestrate the proposal, and constantly drive the romance

They get a rush of attention online and everywhere else. Although they rely on it for self esteem and ego, the fact remains that it’s exhausting. So they repel potential mates whilst they complain about loneliness and orgasm gap; and obsess about the same set of men.

I might still cold approach though. It’s a great way to get out of my head and feel myself. It’s how I got women 15 years older when I had the resources to waste. It’s ever so beautiful in low risk environments; and even better when you’re not dreaming about getting her.

Anybody who puts a bounty on my head, the next day, me too I’ll call my own press conference and put a bounty on their head with the cash on the table for the world to see. People need to start moving madder in Nigeria.

Any government that rehabilitates bandits and releases them back into society, is in bed with bandits. There is no greater way to announce that you hate your people than to free the people that kills them.

For some reason, I visited his post announcing his marriage crisis on Instagram, and what I saw was striking. Aside from a few reasonable ones, a majority of the women in the comment attacked him for adding that his wife “has been in 3 marriages,” and for exposing that she

I love what happened to this man. That's exactly what happens when you choose to become a simp.. When I said your marriage must be under 100/100 , many called me names. If you're married to someone who's not returning the same energy just like you, throw them away. Check the

Weak men amuse me a lot. Imagine crying on a podcast at almost 50 years old over someone who doesn’t rate you and still committed bigamy ontop of your head, after secretly inserting an IUD just so as not to bear your offspring. This one can never be saved. He must perish 🤡

Nobody slept with us before marriage sir. And we are very many. And we are living happily. My husband used to visit me in my parents house. Cohabitation is not for any Christian who loved God. God hates fornication.

That's why the whole cohabitation thing should be for matured minds ready for marriage soon. It's your duty to be convinced of his intention to an extent at least before leaping, bcos man go use penis rearrange you, Inevitably lol.

Two virgins who marry each other can’t fight over sexual compatibility. They learn everyday till they master how to satisfy each other. You only talk about sexual compatibility when your spouse has had multiple sex partners before marriage.

Till you men wake up and realize marriage without cohabiting benefits women...that is why they're all pushing against it....if you as a man fall for this and allow any woman gaslight you into marrying her without cohabitation Then You're a miserable fool 🫵

You’re currently telling us about it. That’s why he refused.

Is it only sex you’d people are doing in your relationships sef?

YabaLeftOnline Nah! I can’t live like this, I wouldn’t survive it. My workplace is about 45minutes from where I stay, open by 8am week days. And I still know how e be sometimes, and I am expected to start preparing for work as early as 3-4am in the morning?? God forbid!

You don’t understand how crazy it is that every 2 weeks women report this man and nothing happens This is like his 50th case on this app. inDrive you guys are useless.

Your problem is that you think it is okay to be disrespected by your wife because things are not okay financially. That is the problem with money centred relationship. You are not a victim. You'll wake up when you decide.

So I have an update on this storyyyyyyy 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 We’ve caught the man no be small thing 🤣🤣🤣 Y’all know my mum yeah? She’s very smart and alladat. So my mum came up with this idea to catch the man because he stopped taking my sister’s calls. My mum told one of her Hausa

When she wants push gift, it is "I carried *YOUR* child" When she wants custody during the divorce, it changes to "it is *MY* child - I carried it for nine months" The owner of the child changes depending on where benefits her the most. Women aren't slick. It is men who fall