because i was mad at you not because of i stopped loving you.

A person that loves you will listen to how he or she has hurt you and try to make things right. A person that loves him or her self will blame you for the pain and expect you to make things right.

“When a man is gentle, soft, and consistently respects you, that’s when your nervous system starts healing. That’s why some women have that special glow when they’re being loved right in a relationship. It’s not the love itself, it’s the emotional safety.” ✨

My therapist told me when your partner shares something emotionally vulnerable with you, imagine they're throwing you a ball. Your task is to catch the ball and talk about the ball itself, not about how you feel about the ball.

I saw post that says “stop reminding me how strong I am when I come to you looking for a safe space to be weak.” And it touched me deeply.

That's my closure from him. The never ending pattern. But what did I got? "You overthink" And I never give my pics to any of my guy friends. I make boundaries. Never apologize to guys or seek closure from guys while I'm in a relationship cuz it never matters.

I. Bought. A. New. Ring. And I LOVE IT ❤ Remember in your life that: Things will get easier. Just have faith, have patience, look to the other side of your hidden blessings, and never forget to be grateful even during your hardships.🌻🌧

Yep. Lesson learned.

The husband did not compete with his wife, nor did the wife feel the need to beat her husband. Because marriage is not a business…

And I'm still in love with this song ❤ youtu.be/F1Gw9ONIS4w?si…

Never forget to be grateful even during your hardships 🤍

"You never let me lead" When have you ever lead? I think about everything and waiting for you to lead is like waiting for rain in this drought. Useless. And disappointing.

MY TYPEEEE

"Have courage and be kind. Where there is kindness, there is goodness, and where there is goodness, there is magic." ♡

the type of love i yearn for in a world of lust.

Ziraffee 🤭