I’m learning to stop being overly nice because it gets you taken advantage of , people look at you as a easy lick and do things to you they’d never do to a person who comes off “mean” or stern. I have no intentions on being the nicest anymore.

You can’t gaslight someone who had to study human behavior to survive.

my unhealthy defense mechanism is to shut down and stop talking if i feel like i’m being misunderstood or disrespected. i don’t like repeating myself and i don’t like the feeling like I’m not being heardl

Manipulative people don't accept their fault. They reframe the tale until your reaction looks worse than their demeanor. Suddenly, you are clarifying yourself while they walk clean away.

Unpopular opinion: No one is labeled as mentally unstable more than the one who sees through the nonsense. No one is gossiped about more than the one who is truly authentic. No one is dismissed or called “crazy” more than the truth-teller. Because no one is more feared than the

a raccoon typed this for sure

Overfamiliarity.

and by the Grace of God i’ll be 50, 60, 70, 80, 90, and so forth.

There’s absolutely nothing fun about camp

I want my people free from the shackles of being hurt a few times and shutting off from the world. Love. Love again. And again.

Errbody wanna be fake healed. Man if I feel hurt I’ll talk about it fa a week straight to get it out my system cs once it’s out it’s out. I rather rlly be over an issue than to be fake nonchalant and rlly be eternally hurt. Nawl im addressing it immediately then im off it

Ima give myself time to be human cs ion believe in being miserable fa life behind something. I’ll go thru every emotion until I get to where I wanna be which is feeling nothing for whatever was causin me stress. Dat way when I say im at peace im frr bout dat

It took me 43 years to realize there are no adult. Just kids in adult bodies trying to figure it things out the best they can.

once you understand this, you will never struggle at making friends or connections

You can’t use money that’s not in my account to impress me.

“Birthlight”

No one is deeping how serious it is that he compliments other girls but not her. Now catarrh is coming out of his nose because she left him and remarried.

“I judge cohabiting, what type of upbringing is that” But you have tattoos & piercings. Your gym shorts stop at your butt cheeks & there’s evidence of fornication all over your TL

Women are so obsessed with putting themselves in tiers. Pathetic stuff. You have sex with a man you’re not married to but you think you’re better raised than the women who are cohabiting. All of us ashawo. If you like don’t go and sit down.