When Meredith Grey said, "I make no apologies for how I chose to repair what you broke" I felt that and it will always stick with me.

I disagree again Relationships are supposed to trigger you, that person who cares for you a lot will mirror every area you need to grow and growth is painful. Don’t lose someone meaningful cos it’s tough, as far as your boundaries aren’t being crossed, they mean well, the

This girl said, “When I lost my spark nobody noticed, because I was still showing up for others. The only way I regained my spark was by isolating myself and limiting how I gave out my resources. People noticed that though.” And that’s really how it be

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Woman are reciprocators. Not initiators. You lead, she follows. You put in effort, she returns it. You make her feel good, she mirrors it. That's the only way it works.

Love alone is not enough. You can love someone deeply and still be wrong for each other, wrong timing, different values, different direction, different emotional capacity. Love doesn’t automatically create effort, maturity, loyalty, or consistency. And sometimes the hardest

The clapping gets to me

Healthy relationships are built on conversations like this❤️🥺

Staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need.

Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.

“You cannot reconcile with someone who is not honest about how they mishandled you“.

First time in 5 years that I am not sleeping in a tent on this particular weekend. #LongLiveBHC UNTIL UNTIL

Wanting a woman to be your peace while you make her anxious is evil.

I will never not share this video when I see it on my TL

"what made you finally detach?" i asked myself if this is how i want to be loved for the rest of my life. if the silence, the half effort, and the constant feeling of being unseen were all i would ever receive. i realized love shouldn't feel like begging for small pieces of

Unfortunately no matter how good your heart is, eventually you have to start treating people the way they treat you.

When you finally realize that someone’s behavior has more to do with their internal struggle than it ever did with you, you learn grace. You also naturally learn detachment as well.

Lauren London said, 'you better love the people God loaned you because he's going to want them back one day', and I felt that.🤍

Normalize saying.... "This isn't how I want to be loved for the rest of my life "and move on.

Bafazi, be selfish. Be selfish with your time, your accessibility, your love, your intelligence, your money, your wombs and your mental health. If it doesn’t serve you, BE SELFISH.