you attract the kind of love and partnership that you’re ready for ultimately - your ability to create and sustain the kind of relationship you want with the kind of person you want to be with is a reflection of your ability to fully give and fully receive

one day you will wake up, and the person responsible for your worst heartbreak will seem so small and silly in the distance that your memory of their power over you will seem like a story you made up

There is no universe where the person who dysregulates your nervous system is the love of your life

the last thing i ever want to lose is the way i love, the way i care too deeply, the way i still choose kindness even when it isn’t returned. i hope that part of me stays, despite everything, despite everyone, despite all the reasons not to.

I will always find it beautiful bagaimana cinta membuat kita ingin hidup lebih lama, softens our edges, making life so much easier to bear, almost as if breathing itself has finally become a relief. Cinta membuat kita ingin menjadi lebih baik, untuk diri sendiri dan orang lain!

trust me when i tell you. when a person loves you more than their ego, everything flows. no conversation too uncomfortable. no bare minimum task too great. no reasonable ask too unreasonable. they will move mountains for you because they want to. your happiness makes them happy.

so important to have people in your life that will give you the benefit of the doubt, ask questions instead of make assumptions and lead with curiosity instead of judgement. it's also very important not to take these ppl for granted either.

No matter how much you like someone, no matter how much you want them to be yours, pls let them meet you halfway (in the middle). It's good for you to realize that you deserve to be loved too. It's also good for them so they could use their right to choose too.

i could write an entire novel about him and it still wouldn’t say enough. if you can’t articulate your love for your partner in your own words, i have to question not only your love for them, but also if you’re even human

I think we need to remember grief can resurface without your healing being a lie. Some of the deepest healing happens when you realise you are no longer fighting just to feel better. You are fighting to stay in right relationship with yourself while you do not feel better yet.

perhaps when love (/thing) comes into our lives, we shall embrace it as it’s supposed to be. along the journey, love may grow, stay, change, fade, or even vanish. eventually it’ll reach its end when it’s time to bid farewell. sometimes we need to lose something to gain something

Love is never uncertain. Love always knows and your heart always knows. From the moment you got their first text, the first time you smiled when they cracked a joke, when you touched their hand for the first time, when you saw their hair, heard their voice, looked into their

Imagine loving someone but instead of forgiving you they just tolerate you and you can feel it. Imagine the weight of that built up over years

‼️‼️‼️ Just don’t normalise it and think you’ve got to accept that in order to be in a relationship. If you have to choose between being single and being cheated on, always choose being single.

the amlunt of andiety i wake up with everyday, injust wanna kms