becoming available for being met & loved in the ways you yearn for most is becoming available for high-stakes emotional risks

which is only possible when you rest in your ability to love (and meet) yourself first

hot guy thing:

not needing to prove yourself

my favourite time of the day (or night) is walking back into the hotel, hearing them say “welcome back”, and feeling their genuine warm welcome 💕

what does “being ethical” mean to you?

new skillset x claim to fame unlocked:

“I want to pay you to watch me do emails because it makes me more productive”

😇⚡️🧚

aire london is WAY better than aire nyc 😿

women love to feel wanted when they feel safe to be able to say no to you

white pill:

sexual neediness can be hot when you reclaim it as focused & directed sexual desire

can you judge someone & feel compassion for them at the same time?

idk who needs to hear this rn, and it’s brave to take up more space when previously it’s been unsafe to do so

ideas:

1. sex depletes women when it’s transactional

2. a transactional dynamic is a give-to-get (hungry ghost) dynamic

3. the most transactional & depleting relational dynamics b/t men & women are those in which the direct exchange of money & resources is off the table

what would the world look like if men & women could be cuddle buddies without shame or awkwardness?