It’s okay to accept and admit to yourself that you failed your discernment. The signs showed, intuition spoke and you still went ahead. But now what will you do about it?

It’s OK to admit you have to do some work on yourself and release bad habits to be able to align with the things you really want. I don’t think enough of us do that.

locking in and getting quieter. don’t have much to say anymore, but I have a lot to do.

Brent Faiyaz's voice is my favorite r&b male voice 😍😮‍💨

ngl I’m very tired of moving through life with a heavy heart, i hope 2025 is much kinder to me in every aspect of my life

praying for more genuine friendships next year

start checking yourself. start correcting yourself when you're being unnecessarily negative. start minding your business when you realize you're policing someone's choices that don't have anything to do with you. hold yourself accountable for goals you keep procrastinating on.

I used to be big on addressing stuff because I felt like communication would fix things. But it's so draining now. Let people be who they are and walk away!

Falling out w my best friend last year caused me so much sadness 😭😭 I’m finally healed.

One of my goals this year is to work on not holding grudges against people. Grudges come with anger and it alters the way I interact with others, subconsciously. Been learning to accept things for what they are & it has brought me so much peace and happiness. 🩷🧘🏽‍♀️🥹

i hate arguing now. i realized that it’s really a turn off for me. i like equal accountability & no pointing fingers & easy solutions. All that other stuff be having my head hurting. Like bro forget it lmao you right just leave me alone

i’m getting pretty asf for valentine’s day

i refuse to unintentionally put myself in positions that i’ve already experienced that brought me nothing but misery. my discernment is at an all time high this year.

Tbh, when I envision my highest self, kids are just never there. Some females dream about being a housewife and taking care of the kids, and I see myself as a BOSS, entrepreneur. Once I live out my career and enjoy the fruits of my labor, I don’t see motherhood. Rich auntie fr.

The loneliness that comes with fixing your life… hits different. It’s not just about being alone, it’s sitting in the quiet after you’ve walked away from everything & everyone that wasn’t good for you. It’s the ache that comes when you say no to ppl you once said yes to.

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i read this today “any relationship you have that could be ruined by having a conversation about your feelings, standards, or expectations wasn't really stable enough to begin with beloved!” woah i was not ready for this one.

Now that I got my shit together and my mind focused, I’m looking back on my past and just wondering how I even made it through the day sometimes.. like I can’t believe that I thought it was normal to feel that much anxiety and depression on the daily basis.