“Our sense of weakness and desperation is exactly when God’s grace becomes most sufficient.” - Francis Chan

“Weakness should cause us to surrender to Christ in a way we never have before, to cry out to the One who has also known weakness, who has been tempted in every way, who knows the pull to give up, to move on, to pursue His own way.” - Francis Chan

“When you are weak, He is strong. When you feel like giving up, He shows you how to be faithful.” - Lisa Chan

"At the heart of the gospel is victory. Victory over judgment. Victory over death. Victory over sin.” - Lisa Chan

“The only way to ‘increase’ in these qualities, or to ‘increase’ in our Christ-likeness, is to increase our time and effort in pursuit of Him. To drastically increase the amount of time we spend in prayer.” - Lisa Chan

“We want our marriages to be filled with love, but maybe we’ve forgotten the best way to accomplish that: display the gospel. Lay down your very life for your husband or wife, but ultimately for Christ.” -Lisa Chan

“How marriage is supposed to work: we find our identity and fulfillment in Christ, we fill to overflowing with the fruit of the Spirit, and then we pour that love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, and gentleness onto our spouses.” - Lisa Chan

“Christians should look like Christ.” - Francis Chan

“Followers of Christ are to imitate Christ.”- Francis Chan

“Humility is the key to a healthy marriage.” -Francis Chan

“Arguments escalate when we want to be right more than we want to be Christ.” -Francis Chan

“The beauty of the gospel is that Christ is of such supreme worth that we would gladly sacrifice all to have Him.” -Francis Chan

“Humble people are broken over their own sin, more concerned with honoring God than arguing about what they deserve, and try--by the grace of God–to stay focused on the gospel and the goal." -Francis Chan

“Being like Christ would solve a whole lot of our problems.” -Francis Chan

“There is no safer place to be than in the will of God” -Francis Chan

“The more you grow in your pursuit of Christ-likeness, the more you will naturally live out your God-given role." Lisa Chan

“Your best shot of having a beautiful marriage is if both of you make it your goal to become like Jesus.”- Lisa Chan

“When we both make it our goal to love each other with the love of Christ, the conflicts we have regarding roles and responsibilities dissipate.”- Lisa Chan

“HE is strong, fearless, loving, pure, and humble.” - Lisa Chan

“Take action by truly loving your spouse--not only through words, but showing love in the way Jesus showed love.” -Lisa Chan