taking a BIGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG step back when i realise i’m crossing the line between understanding them and disrespecting myself

i really don’t stay mad at people for long. i may never speak to you again but i’m not mad about nothing for real 😭😭😭

date sweet men. men who are calm. men who can articulate themselves. men who are soft spoken. men who are patient with you. men who respect both you and themselves . men who are kind to you. men that are gentle. men who have self control.

i still think about the other time i went on my first and last hinge date, where the guy was trying to use his jacket as a mat for us to sit down & i was saying its okay & he said “i can tell u have never been treated right” damn.

staying on call w someone while u both do ur own thing is very comforting.

my new baby🖤

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my ex really taught me that no matter how good of a woman you are, it will never be enough for someone who's not ready to be a man

Fall in love with an avoidant

if i can reset my life i would

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Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.

enjoy it while it lasts

my bf cooked for me and my fam today🥹 & my dad looked at me & whispered “good boyfriend👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻” FINALLY