nobody actually likes you when you're depressed. Plain and simple. We can talk all day about mental health and how important it is, but the moment you’re depressed, people start to distance themselves. They see you as negative, a burden, and someone too heavy to handle.

I really wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A cooking wife. A loving wife. A glowy wife. A secure wife. A Caring & obsessed wife, to a Honorable, provider, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, emotionally intelligent, God fearing husband>>

“I never asked you to” is such a nasty thing to say after benefiting from someone’s time and love.

People move on after mistreating you. They're not sitting up in a room like Brandy thinking about you. Most of the time they move on and live perfectly fine after doing you dirty. So release yourself from the shackles of waiting for someone to regret how they mistreated you.

Kamohelo I feel you guys are too hard on women who speak positively about romantic partners. One tweet about one aspect of her very large life doesn’t mean she is consumed by marriage. You will also probably cry because it’s a beautiful feeling & there’s nothing wrong with that.

Delayed grief is very dangerous. You don't cry, you’re numb, & you move on like nothing significant happened. You keep suppressing everything until the day it finally escapes, and when it does, it's like a dam bursting, flooding your mind and heart, making it difficult to cope.

A former friend of mine said that to me after I went to her baby shower 2 weeks after my baby died (my bd insisted I not go coz it was too soon). I went bcoz I wanted to support my friend. I spoke as a friend at the shower 2 years later in a fight she said she never asked me to

I just hate how everyone acts like we’re not supposed to feel a certain way about anything , you could be expressing how much you desire companionship and someone will quote your tweet and say some woke shit 😭😂

7 things Id love to experience at least once in my life >>> 1.A suprise birthday party 2.Being loved loudly 3. I saw this and thought of you 4."I got you this because I know you like it 5. An "I'm proud of you" 6. An"everything is going to be okay" 7.A true hug

When my friend passed on the 27th, I suddenly started crying for him and all the other friends I’ve lost in the last 2 years. Yoh I didn’t realise how much I had suppressed my grief and avoided crying for them.

I'm not a girls girl. I thought I was but I have a type. I don't like some of y’all. Some of y’all really have no heart and just be out here moving with no morals, no soul, no accountability, not a single care in the world. I like kind girls. Genuine girls. Real girls.

Grief has to be one of the scariest things to endure.. it plays so many tricks on you mentally & emotionally🥺

Stop invalidating other people’s feelings. Me: “I lost my 2 aunts and my grandma in a period of 2 months.” Her: “You’re better, I lost my mom.” I don’t know what it’s like to lose a mother, I can only imagine. But grief is not a competition. What do you mean “I’m better”? Pain

I stopped telling people when my mental health starts getting bad again. Once I heard someone say how exhausting it is to love someone with depression and anxiety, it never left me. The last thing I want is to drain the people I care about while I’m fighting just to stay afloat.

I understand that some people are genuinely this way. I just personally cannot be friends with them. Mainly because I’m an oversharer so I’d always feel like the friendship is not reciprocal

The call I never want to stop seeing

when I was 19 my PCP felt a lump and sent me to UMich breast cancer center. after my mammogram the attending physician berated me for “wasting hospital resources” (reminder: i had a referral….for potential cancer…) reported him & told my PCP to never send another patient to him

Something similar happened to me. The radiologist told me that he didn’t want to see me until I turned 40 and that I was wasting my medical aid funds because I’d been there twice in 2 years. Mind you I had a referral from my GP both times 😂

What a tough year so far, yho. I’m the most heartbroken babe in SA sana 🙂💔

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