getting pickier actually made me kinder tbh. hard to find reasons to be bitter + cold when you simply don’t entertain things that offend your character.

Him: “I really like you.” Autistic woman: “Your behavior is not specific to me.”

contrary to popular belief, while this may work in rare cases, statistics show that men who commit violent crimes towards women usually *do* target the polite/quiet ones because in they are seen as less likely to resist. so in other words: be loud, it’s a weirdo’s worst

Just because you understand someone's behavior, or why they are the way that they are, does not mean you have to put up with it. No amount of empathy or understanding should ever come before your wellness, especially if their behavior hurts you or makes you uncomfortable.

And this is why i dislike the concept of dating apps but that’s just me

I’m the worst multitasker you’ll ever meet. I simply can’t do it.

There’s a mathematical solution for everything, you just have to find it.

Took a walk on a rocky path and thought “I wish there was someone here with me to tell me how beautiful these trees are” instead of telling it to myself.

clocking in between this twitter and my burner to be completely 2 different people.

noticing

Why does this Chinese drama start with this absolutely beautiful woman, that looks like what i’d expect if the sun and moon had a child, punching a pig???

with no malice whatsoever to OP, some of you need to learn that more words aren't going to solve your problem if you have something you need to express, write it down somewhere, get it out, then don't send it. tell yourself you can send it later and wait for the moment to pass

If you love someone remove them from the pedestal which imprisons them and denies the fullness of their humanity. Allow them to be imperfect and assure them that their so called imperfection is also a reflection of the divine.

Traveling is not even expensive

Insane really.

This! Behavioral change is incredibly difficult and rare. (Note the difficulty of treating addictions.) Too many women believe it when a man says he will change. Even he does not know if he CAN change, and under pressure/stress he will likely revert to the same old ugly