i used to think if i explained myself better, people would understand. turns out they understood just fine, they just didn’t care enough to do anything about it.

If you are serious about regulating your nervous system as a woman, you cannot deal with men at all for a while

You can’t build a life with someone who thinks love is just a feeling instead of a choice and an action.

NO WOMAN wants to constantly yell, argue, stress, cry, or live in fight or flight mode. She wants to be SOFT, but that only happens when you make her feel SAFE first.

Take it personal. At this age, people are 100% aware.

I love a man that wanna take u everywhere with him like yayyyyyyyy lemmme put my shoes on 😂😂😍😩

once i realized a mf a jump for the next but a walk for me i stopped fw everybody !

YOU FAILED AS A MAN if she is fighting alone for a place you promised her.

Him: I miss you. Me: If you acted right you wouldn't have to.

Men aren’t confused… they know exactly what they’re doing. They know when they’re inconsistent, when they’re giving the bare minimum, and when they’re playing games. They just hope you like them enough to accept the BULLSHIT

going to the store and letting the store tell you what you need >>>

“Will i be the man that she can lean on or will i watch her stand without me?”

Ain't no more on & off sht, Either you solid or you dismissed

Realizing you romanticized someone, and bigged them up so much more in your mind than what they really are and are capable of, and the actual version of them is fucking garbage, and not worth fighting for, or dealing with at all is soooo enlightening.

If he knows you're hurting & it's not bothering him, MOVE ON.

i done seen a ngga say he love me & turn around and tell the next btch he don't fw me fr so when it come down to these nggas ion trust sht at all

a ngga will swear you the problem… whole time you leave, and his life still looking the exact same. same habits. same issues. same chaos. that’s when it hits… it was never you. some people just need someone to blame so they don’t have to face themselves💯

I respect a ngga that realize he gotta get his sht together cause he truly don’t wanna lose his bitch... not a ngga that get sneakier and do the same sht. That’s pathetic