I operate from the assumption that people may not have “common” knowledge or might not have been taught what others might consider fundamental skills. If someone learns that the nonsense they saw on cleaning TikTok is potentially dangerous, I consider that a net good.

Is the mess too overwhelming and time-consuming to deal with? Having a hard time getting started? Half-ass it. Put two things away instead of the 50 in front of you. Wash three dishes. Wipe down a counter without feeling obligated to do anything else. It adds up.

If you have any extra room in your giving budget this month, Bassey is raising money for her son’s soccer team to train in Barcelona. Click through to read the story of this underfunded underdog team’s rise to the top! my.cheddarup.com/c/undefined/c/…

ADHD folks! René Brooks | Black Girl, Lost Keys is an incredible resource for strategies and education, and she’s launching new coaching programs, including a cleaning with ADHD one. Her insights are so great and I know her coaching will be, too!

Have you gotten to Sink Zero lately? Try to tackle the dishes to achieve that brief, fleeting moment when you don't have any more dishes to deal with. It's probably not going to stay that way for long, so try to enjoy the satisfaction instead of anticipating future frustration.

Going through my Patreon exit surveys, and this one was really something. Since this word salad comment makes no sense, let me clarify my position: Trans rights are human rights and not a threat to me in any way, and I prefer that those who think otherwise don't support my work.

Depression nest check-in time! If you’re currently existing as a couch burrito, try setting a 5-minute timer to do one of these: -Collect dishes and trash -Clear off the nearest flat surface -Change into clean PJs -Have some water and something to eat. You’ve got this.

Returning to this hellsite one last time to say you can find me at bsky.app/profile/teamuf… (I’ll be deleting/deactivating here soon)