I saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. and as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really.

“You’re so strict” Thanks, I’ve seen what happens to women who aren’t.

Wine drunk. T shirt and a thong. R&B playing. Cooking pasta. In MY place that I live in by myself. Happy mf Friday.

I'm tired of: • "Almost" relationships • Mixed signals • "I like you but I'm not ready" • Being someone's maybe • Feeling like an option • "Let's see where it goes" I want to be chosen. Clearly. Consistently. Without confusion. I want someone who says "yes, you" and means

Placing that effort into my friendships and loved one. Romance is a gesture or an action. No person has romanced me more than my friends. My male partners have always been ornaments in comparison to the sheer gravitas of my friendships 💕💕

- Put an AirTag in your car and on your keys. Hide the car one REAL good. - take BC powder before you go to bed after drinking to avoid a hangover - Plan B only works up to 165, otherwise take Ella. - 9 incline on treadmill builds booty + 3.5 speed - don’t trust men, ever

Lmfaooooo

It’s the reason I was so committed to healing myself. My grandmother couldn’t do it. My mother refused to do it, so I HAD TO. I refused to let my children suffer needlessly. Heal yourself, heal your lineage.

You can't breadcrumb a woman who feeds herself. I have hobbies. I have my career. I have options. If you disappear, I don't spiral. I reorganize.

I detach very fast. Anything i love extremely deeply I'm prepared to lose. It can break my heart but I have learned how to keep going. It can seem cold, but if it takes me off my pivot.. I’ll cut my finger off to save my hand. I can’t lose myself again, for anything. I'll heal

Do not ignore me. You can tell me you don't want to talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case may be. Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.

your life actually starts at 27; its the age where reality starts to hit. You start noticing patterns you used to ignore, bad habits, weak decisions, wasted time. And you realize some of your pain isn’t bad luck, it’s repeated mistakes. That is a hard thing to accept, but it is

not just enjoyed, but honored, respected, devoured, considered, prayed for, favored, remembered, prioritized, preferred, assured, validated, comforted, nurtured, catered to, protected, rallied for, supported, cared for, looked after, and loved. fully, proudly, gladly, loved.

No We can’t date casually. No We can’t casually have sex. There’s nothing casual about being in my space. I’m a real lover. There is nothing casual about my intimacy. There is nothing casual about my heart.

Ages 25–30 are really difficult. You’re dealing with a shrinking friend group, aging parents, cleaning up the financial mess from your early 20s, your career, your health. You’ve gotta find time to heal your mind. You just have to.

Going 50/50 on bills, to then come home and cook, clean, do laundry, & do majority of the parenting would send me over the fucking edge. And that’s why I’ll never shame women for wanting to date men that have it. Collectively, things NEVER end up being 50/50

ITS NORMAL TO: Change careers at 30 Cry and still keep going at 30 Lose friends at 30 Find yourself at 30 Be single at 30 Start therapy at 30 Fall in love at 30 Marry at 30 Have your first child at 30

y'all want a boyfriend for EVERYTHING bruh. take your lil siblings to the pumpkin patch, facetime your grandparents, make your mom a spooky basket, travel somewhere with a friend, go out to eat w your family, fuck

I feel like living alone for a significant amount of time is important for young women. A chance to learn who you are and how you want to do life without distraction or added responsibility of a partner/kids. Without the safety of your parents. Who are you when no ones watching?