'They are a narcissist'
VS.
'They would scream & punish me every time I came into contact with my family, they called me names to demean & control me, they accused me of cheating with violent outbursts.'

Language matters. Labels are not pattern based behavioral evidence!!!!

@PredPandemic @bethannempower @couragecentral His ability to choose who he abuses shows it is not a medical condition. It is an entitlement condition. Calling it a medical condition allows for him to claim he is sick & his choice is impaired. It is a dangerous argument in our systems. They are hoodwinked by it.