Valentines Day is coming up. Yes, you need to ask her to be your Valentine. Yes, you need to buy her flowers. Yes, you need to plan a date.

Wanting a woman to be your peace while you make her anxious is evil.

Call each friend individually and repeat the story as many times as you can.

Girl to girl… Normalize leaving what doesn’t feel like love. You are someone’s dream girl remember that.

We don’t HAVE to talk everyday , but if we do start talking everyday and doing good morning texts etc then it just stops, I know something.

financially stable men be calm & sweet, broke mfs be snappy & the rudest... idk, maybe it's the hunger or smth

men go above and beyond for the women they want, and i’m just going to leave it at that.

people knowing him from the bear and not shameless is an insane concept to me

this is why I refuse to be overworked or pushed beyond my limit anymore. too many black women dying from stress related heart failure, aneurisms etc. ya’ll not gone kill me.

My therapist told me: “When a person grows up feeling unseen, they learn to love by over-giving. They pour into everyone else, hoping that, one day, someone will finally pour back into them. So they become the care taker. The fixer. The one who shows up, even when no one shows

everyday scary rn.

I saw a quote that said: “You worry too much for someone whom God has never failed.” And honestly, I needed to be called out like that.

Unfortunately I'm not an illiterate and I'll always talk back! You cannot manipulate or gaslight me I'll apologize when I'm wrong but you can never gaslight me to thinking I reacted too much towards how you treated me 😏💁

bitches who encourage you to do and be better are real friends

if a man cares about you, he's going to call, text, and communicate with you. if he's not doing those things then he doesn't care about you it's just that simple. as a woman it's not your job to pursue a man. If he wants you, you will know. u deserve clarity, not confusion

I wouldn't have gone through half of the stuff i went through if I just said no and had boundaries.

I owe myself an apology for staying in spaces where I wasn’t wanted or appreciated, for forcing broken connections and relationships. I owe myself an apology for putting people who never valued me above myself and for doubting my own worth.

GREEN FLAG: He notices when your energy is off and checks in, NOT out. 🥹

An EXPIRED friendship is NOT beef.