A key trait of emotional immaturity is a desire to blame, deflect, or project issues onto other people. This is because emotionally immature people are uncomfortable with their own internal emotional state.

there’s no league, you date at the level of your confidence

date sweet men. men who are calm. men who can articulate themselves. men who are soft spoken. men who are patient with you. men who respect both you and themselves . men who are kind to you. men that are gentle. men who have self control.

Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control

Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control

Please date kind people guys. I can never stress the importance of this. When a person is naturally kind, there is a way they think and reason. Also, you don’t have to remind them of kindness all the damn time, it’s in their nature. Choose kind people any day.❤️

I know I’m not the only one who notices the quiet grief we Africans carry. For delayed exposure, slow systems, almost zero safety nets, starting adulthood already tired and having dreams literally cut short by bad governance. No single day goes by on this app without reading it.

I was able to break out of that pattern by asking myself “Am I actually in the wrong, or am I taking responsibility for someone else’s actions because I feel obligated to be the bigger person in order to preserve this friendship or relationship?”…

abandonment isn’t just leaving someone in a house with no food, water, or lights. it’s also shutting down instead of showing up. It’s withdrawing without proper communication. abandonment is disappearing during hard moments. it’s refusing accountability. it’s avoiding repair.

Chris Kaiga’s ‘Catchi Yoh Whine’, a cup of coffee and my laptop 👌👌🔥🔥🔥

Top 50 Serial Killer TV Shows of All Time 🎬 1. Mindhunter (2017–2019) ⭐9.6 2. Hannibal (2013–2015) ⭐9.5 3. True Detective S1 (2014) ⭐9.4 4. Dexter (2006–2013) ⭐9.3 5. The Fall (2013–2016) ⭐9.2 6. Criminal Minds (2005–2020) ⭐9.1 7. Broadchurch (2013–2017) ⭐9.0 8. The

once your mental health improves, you really start to realize how awfully people treated you when you were just in need of support.

One of my favorite things about traveling is that it breaks the illusion that your current life is the only possible one.

And one major problem with knowing too much or seeing things clearly is that you lose the ability to participate in certain illusions that make life easier for everyone else.

I've tasted trying to fix people, and I've tasted forcing the truth down their throats. I highly recommend not caring more about people's lives than they do. No one is your assignment. Not even the ones you love.

Dating past your 30s is realizing attraction is easy … but alignment is rare.

After years of dating an emotionally avoidant person, I can tell you, don't date them. Avoid them at all costs. Not because they're broken. Because you will break trying to fix them. Here is what actually happens: You will have the same conversation dozens of times. The same

Dating past your 30s is realizing attraction is easy … but alignment is rare.

Soft love is not boring. It’s just not chaotic enough for people who are addicted to confusion.