sorry unpopular opinion but everybody is obligated to be kind and tolerant to children. white feminism convinced y’all that hating them is an act of resistance against the patriarchy but the reality is that kindness to children has never been the norm, just parenthood.
i never said my goal was equality. for me black feminist praxis is not about ‘a seat at the table’ next to a white man; it’s another galaxy where there is no concept of a table and there are others forms of communing not based on exclusion, which is what the table metaphor is btw
water is like the oldest beverage ever and somehow has no nickname. no one is ever like "sure could go for a cup of that clear" or whatever. huge oversight imo
periodic reminder that no matter your gender or sexuality, you need to de-center men from your life. prioritizing them gains you nothing but bad takes and an irritating attachment to the status quo