No shade.. but it be funny when some of yall be sitting and laughing w a ngga about the btch he did dirty and thinking you was about to get treated differently & end up looking just like the btch you was laughing at 😂😂😂 I see that ALOT!
delayed grief is dangerous. you don't cry. you're numb, and you move on like nothing significant happened. you keep suppressing everything until the day it finally escapes, and when it does, it's like a dam bursting, flooding your mind and heart, making it difficult to cope
My life experiences has tried to harden my heart but I’m learning that at my core I still have a sweet and loving soul. Even with the layers of pain and survival mode. Underneath it all is still love in its purest form—resilient, nurturing, wise…real!
Some people unfortunately don't become better as we get older, they become more insufferable.. And one thing I'll always do is distance myself from a mf that get on my nerves 😭
listen, not everyone’s trauma gives them thick skin. some people's trauma made them more sensitive and insecure, they cry more easily, get overwhelmed at small tings. the narrative that trauma makes you stronger is a lie. there is, power in acknowledging it and growing from it.