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Renuka Dhinakaran

@renudhinakaran

International Labour Lawyer
Patient Advocate for #hEDS #POTS #LongCovid #rheumatoidarthritis #Dysautonomia
Focusing on marriage, parenting & chronic illness

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'You have 11 years to get better mommy. That is when I will be graduating from law school and we will practice law together. ' - My 11 year old son, consoling me today when he heard me crying in my room about having to close my law practice due to

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Weight, menstruation or anxiety. That is what doctors think of in the first appointment when a woman complains about pain or fatigue.

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I just asked my husband this question. He seemed baffled at first and answered that it was, may be, a parrot? Answer a question with another question. My husband's secret to keeping our marriage strong.

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Our 11 yo has not had a proper vacation in 5 years, because of my illness. Yet, everytime there is a school break, he is overjoyed at the prospect of 'vacation'. For him, vacation = more books, family movie & game time, playdates and deseerts. Bittersweet. in

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If you have dysphagia, doing swallowing exercises regularly is very crucial. For menstruating women - do these especially when during ovulation & in the luteal phase generally.

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Truer words have not been spoken. Encourage your children to read. That is one of the best things you can do as a parent.

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Halfway into Inception, our son has started wondering about reality and we have paused our movie time. Thanks, Nolan!

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What intimacy? My poor husband is happy if he can just give me a hug without dislocating my shoulder or ribs. 🀣

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Today one of our teachers took her class outside to sit and listen to the rain. I LOVE that one of our teachers took our children to sit and listen to rain. And then one of them wrote this. We're going to have it made into a sign to put in our outdoor learning area. πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

Today one of our teachers took her class outside to sit and listen to the rain. I LOVE that one of our teachers took our children to sit and listen to rain. And then one of them wrote this. We're going to have it made into a sign to put in our outdoor learning area. πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•
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Your friendly reminder that ambulatory wheelchair-users exist. Sometimes we use wheelchairs and sometimes we stand up to take photos of blossom trees πŸ˜ƒ

Your friendly reminder that ambulatory wheelchair-users exist. Sometimes we use wheelchairs and sometimes we stand up to take photos of blossom trees πŸ˜ƒ
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When a parent becomes chronically ill, they realise the true value of doing simple things with their child. I taught my son to make my chai yesterday (as I couldn't move my hands after a procedure). It was 10 minutes of unadulterated joy for both of us. in

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'Oh mommy, I know this pain!' - no child should ever have to feel or say this. My son & I sharing notes about pain from repeated dislocation of our hypermobile joints and regular headaches is the saddest thing in our lives. in

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I’m excited to share that we have a PhD position available in our group, at the Department of Biomaterials and Biomedical Technology (BBT), University Medical Center Groningen (UMCG). Please, read more about the position in our website: bit.ly/4aJZu1k

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Watched the Martian with our 11 yo son. A great movie to watch for a family struggling with chronic illnesses. You solve one problem, then another & another & hope that if you solve'em all, you can come home. Resilience & ingenuity in the face of adversity.

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If you are chronically ill and married, having food in the freezer will save your marriage on a regular basis. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

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Navigating a healthcare system is an essential life skill without which you might literally die. My 11 yo son (who has a rare disease) requests us to move him away from any doctor who does not believe his symptoms or tries to psychologise them with no basis.

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