my dad sent me a pic of some flowers he arranged and i made it my pfp. he was so happy that now he sends me upgraded arrangements almost every day, each one more detailed than the last.
it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. a woman feeds off his energy. Women are reciprocators, not initiators, this is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. she can't feel safe with you if you're not leading properly.