One thing about me I will never do anyone how they have done me, I will ultimately forgive you but I won’t forget.. I’ve learned that forgiveness does not need to come with rekindling and making someone feel bad for wanting different is so selfish..

no more repeated cycles. it’s time to grow.

I stand by I don’t want to spend my life educating someone how to love me

Healing rather than repeating cycles taught me that Speaking about your feelings & Setting boundaries won't lose you anything worth having but only remove things that do not align, making room for quality which eventually brings you peace and a better relationship within yourself

i am fr so proud of myself, i’ve done so much inner work this year. idc who noticed, baby i did.

I’m so glad I’ve reached the point in my life where as long as I know I did right by you, I don’t mind cutting ties w/ lovers, family or friends.

Never have I thought of myself to be better than anyone but the mindsets/character some have, I will just not associate myself with or allow. There is no way at this grown age you do not know how to act/carry yourself to be a decent human being. You got one time to come correct.

I do not think that cheating is something that should be normalized to forgive & then just rekindle. It’s a choice. Choose to Be with someone who knows what they have the first time around, who truly appreciates you and will not do ANYTHING to lose you without having to lose you.

Choosing to focus on my peace & not settling brought my focus back to regaining my relationship with god, drawing closer to my goals that align with my real values and morals which brought me true peace & blessings, I thank god everyday for. Choose you always and trust Gods plan.

ending march with a grateful heart

people don’t believe you’ll ignore anyone or cut them off until it’s them on the outside trying to get back in

Living alone >>>

To convince yourself or even think i would ever want to be anyone other than myself is absolutely insane, do not flatter yourself

don’t ever try to gossip about me and think you have some tea or something on me, anything you know I allowed to be known

been in my 🫧.. It's safe here

This my life, i don’t got to put up with shit

You ever miss the person someone pretended to be instead of what they truly were, I wish that person was real