some days i’m healing and some days i break again.

buying candles, wine glasses, and new skincare products excite me.

The best way to start feeling better about yourself is to stop convincing people of who you are and start showing up in the world as the person you want to be. You don’t need to convince, you just need to be it.

a real pretty big girl and i never seen no big girl be the main character in a video like this ever.

she’s always just sitting there while a lesbian is destroying shit x.com/bestofaloy/sta…

painting my feelings

You deserve a partner who cherishes your uniqueness and gives you grace as you learn love beyond survival mode.

Shoutout to the women who are working through their past. To the women who are healing, and forgiving others and themselves for the things they’ve allowed. The women who are ready to accept the improved version of themselves, and act accordingly. I hope you have an amazing day.

Healing will require you to drop the tough girl act. The tough girl that’s rigid and stoic. The tough girl that doesn’t give af, but deep down she gives a lot of fucks. The tough girl that won’t allow anyone in or allow her emotions to get out. The tough girl that pretends as if

she doesn’t need anybody, when she’s really tired of feeling like she’s never had anyone. The tough girl that’s been keeping you from what you want, while taking you back to what you don’t need. Release her. She hasn’t been doing a good job of protecting you anyway. You’re

he was nice but i deserve someone who’s crazy about me. there’s a lot of “love out loud” that i missed out on as a child. i would love for my future life partner to give me that. love me out loud. speak of me with pride. best believe, i’ll be doing that for you too.

Abandonment wounds run deep in our nervous system and the subconscious mind. Being left by someone who promised to stick by us leaves an emotional scar. Every time we're close to someone, the subconscious mind goes into a threat state. This is when we sabotage relationships, or

Don't be too hard on yourself. You've come a long way and you're still learning and growing.

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𝐁𝐈𝐆 𝐌𝐎 … I agree. I might be hurt but trust I’m gonna leave you and level up. Cause I can’t thug it out & be miserable.

I’m very much touch deprived. I crave that kind of intimacy but it also makes me uncomfortable because I’m not used to it. It’s not you, it’s me.

Most days I’m thriving, creating better habits getting rid of bad ones, optimistic and ready to take on anything. Then some days I can’t even get out of bed..

I’m so tired of trying to heal from things I didn’t ask for and being hard to love because of it. I just want peace, to let it all go.