Speaking to charities working with men and boys, a recurring theme was pressure: to look right, earn right, live right and the quiet toll that takes.

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Published this weekend in The Sun (Fabulous): the story of a mother fighting to keep the man who killed her baby behind bars — and what it means to be pulled back into the justice system years later.

This isn’t just about the original crime. It’s about the long afterlife of violence: how grief, fear and uncertainty don’t end at conviction, especially when parole and early release enter the picture.

For victims’ families, parole hearings aren’t abstract legal processes. They are moments when trauma resurfaces, when the past is reopened, and when the possibility of release becomes real again.

There’s a wider system issue here. Victims are often asked to submit statements, revisit evidence and re-engage with proceedings designed primarily around the offender, not the people left behind.

What many people don’t realise is how long and complex this process can be. Cases can resurface years — sometimes decades — later, with families expected to relive events they have spent years trying to survive.

This story looks at what that reality actually feels like from the inside — not in policy language, but through the experience of someone still living with the consequences.

Full story here: thesun.co.uk/fabulous/37956…

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One of the least discussed impacts of changing gender roles is how men feel when they earn less than their partner.

Cultural change around women’s earnings has outpaced the emotional and psychological adjustment expected of men.

Earning less doesn’t just change how couples spend money; it subtly reshapes confidence, decision-making and who feels entitled to speak with authority.

I wrote about this recently. dailymail.co.uk/lifestyle/love…

This week I’ve been looking at how online rumour attaches itself to real-life tragedy.

In one case, the phrase “Dubai porta potty party” became shorthand before facts were established.

The term itself appears to have originated in fringe forums years ago — but is now viewed hundreds of millions of times on TikTok.

Meanwhile, trafficking and coercion in Dubai is very real — but looks very different from the meme.

Full deep dive here: nharding.substack.com/p/memes-exploi… Reporting for The Sun here:thesun.co.uk/living/3813404…