Every time I Ignored the sign, the lesson came back louder. God didn’t change the message he turned up the volume.

Just apologize to your woman when you know you messed up. All that manipulative behavior, and getting mad at her for being upset when she has a valid reason, is just weird. People love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.

This girl on TikTøk said, "My problem is | get around people and start making them believe in themselves. They get around me and try to make me feel smaller than I am." I felt that so hard.

Lord put me in a Position where I don’t have to Beg, Borrow or Struggle

I've learned to take someone's lack of effort as a sign of their lack of interest, no matter what they say. Words without actions are manipulation. When someone truly wants to be with you, they'll show it.

I don’t argue patterns anymore. I observe them. Once is a mistake. Twice is a message. Three times? Curriculum complete.

Dealing with people who can't accept when they're wrong is the most annoying thing ever

Umntu uyayekwa

After so much disrespect & disappointment you just be cool😂 I literally don't have the energy for shit nomore.

I stopped correcting adults. If I have to teach you how to respect me, I’ve already downgraded myself to your life skills tutor. I resigned. Quietly.

ManipuIation is when someone blames you for your reaction to their toxic behaviour but doesn’t discuss their disrespect that triggered you.

If they go silent after you express a need, it isn't random, it's a refusal. They heard you; they just chose not to respond.

Healing has to happen in different aspects Physical Emotional Mental Spiritual It can take years & most of the time you just have to learn to live with the pain and trauma coz life doesn’t wait for you 🩶🌺

Deep / Soulful House Gigs for the month of March?

Before they cheated, they considered the risk of losing you, the risk of you finding out, the pain it would cause… and they still decided it was worth it. That’s the hardest part to forgive.

Once you are able to master the art of listening to a man's actions more than his words, you will have solved half your problems as a woman.

Normalize seeing someone’s lack of effort as their lack of interest in you, regardless of what they tell you🙌🏾.

My dad said there’s no better way to punish a man than to leave him. All that blocking, silent treatment, long paragraphs, swearing at him or getting physical doesn’t matter. Just leave him, sis.

There’s no coming back from certain things, and I don’t think people really understand that. Some damage doesn’t get undone, and once it changes how you see someone, that’s it. Not everything deserves a second chance, no matter how sorry they are.

Oh Lord when you heal & bless me , please bless & protect those who looked out for me when I was crushed , down and about to give up 🙏🏽🙏🏽🫂🫂 Ke ya le leboga blind , le nthišitše 🩶🙏🏽