Someone giving you money is actually a big deal man. People work very hard for money, some under harsh conditions. Even if they give you R50 be grateful

It’s better to learn from other people’s mistakes than to learn from your own, because some mistakes don’t give you the luxury of a lesson. It kills you.

Stop keeping people in your life just because of how long you’ve known them. You can meet someone tomorrow who has better intentions for you than someone you’ve known for a long time.

I once killed a plant by watering it too much, and that’s how I learned, even good intention can be harmful in excessive..

I don’t know how else to say it. Feed your man, fuck your man, and he’ll do whatever the hell you want. It really isn’t that complicated.

A man isn’t obligated to protect or provide for a woman who refuses to respect him or follow his lead. Respect isn’t optional, it’s the foundation.

As a man, learn to choose a woman that chooses you. Some of you men have a problem, you keep chasing women who are unsure about you, hoping effort will turn into desire. A woman who truly wants you will make time, show effort, and bring peace, not confusion. You won’t need to

Relationships aren’t failing because people stopped loving each other. They’re failing because people don’t know how to handle discomfort anymore. Walk with me A 🧵.

Women reject broke men - Standards. Men reject single moms - immature. Women reject short men - Preference. Men reject fat women - body shaming. Women set boundaries - knows her worth. Men set boundaries-Controlling. It’s becomes hypocrisy when they only apply one way.

Sometimes the hand helping you is more broken than yours. Never underestimate it, and never assume they have more to give.

Stop paying women to be your wife. A real wife isn’t there to cost you money. She’s someone who helps you earn better, manage smarter, save more and build something that actually lasts. She doesn’t take from you, she grows with you and adds to your purpose.

Never chase anyone. Instead, be brave and tell them how you feel and what you need. Keep it clear. Keep it honest. If they’re not on the same page, accept it and let them go.

When a man replaces you with silence and peace instead of another woman, understand this. It was never just a breakup, it was his way out. An exit he had been craving long before he finally chose himself.

A woman won’t treat you the way she treats her father. She’ll treat you the way she watched her mother treat her father. Patterns don't lie.

Letting go is hard but being with a woman who makes you explain every day how to love you is very draining. Men deserve better too !!

Being too nice will always open you up to some form of disrespect either from your partner, your kids, strangers and friends. You now you lack authenticity trying to protect yourself from being disrespected, completely throws you off from genuine existence into a character

When ego finally fades, I hope you will realize that you destroyed the only person who ever had pure intentions for you.

When a woman loses interest, she won't tell you. She'll just get busy, act distant, and slowly pull away until you leave first.

It’s tough in the e-hailing industry.