Adopted children aren’t placeholders. Leave them alone if thoughts like these ever cross your mind.

please do not be the reason someone hates themselves or feels hurt, if you cannot make life better for anyone then at the very least don’t make it worse, please be kind, please take others feelings into consideration, please don’t add more pain into this world, just be better.

i love how prayer automatically calms your nervous system

Nonsexual intimacy is such a lost art. The eye contact, the gentle touch, deep convo, holding hands, mutual support, hugging, non sexual massages, cooking a meal together, shared experiences, cuddles, curiosity, silence feels warm. I can go on and on about this.

If someone initiates an uncomfortable conversation instead of avoiding you, it’s often a sign of respect and investment in the relationship. Most people will prioritize their own comfort and avoid taking a positive risk rather than endure a little awkwardness to repair a rupture.

Tomorrow is Monday. We’re walking into a good week, no excuses, no bad energy, just good news upon good news.

Aujourd'hui j'ai lu : "clarifier les choses pour que l'autre ne réfléchisse pas trop, et ne soit pas triste c'est aussi une responsabilité affective", et je pense que tout le monde doit lire ça.

Please stop going into the medical or healthcare field if you lack empathy

If this was an African family, they would have taken everything and left her destitute.

having a partner who educates you on topics you lack knowledge in, is a different kind of intimacy

ngl, i'd be surprised too if i ever get into a relationship

Your partner actually LIKING you as a friend is important. Romantic love is not enough.

I realized at 28 that I don’t want a ‘dream job’ I just want a life where I’m not stressed about money.

You ever notice how some people don’t apologize? They just act normal again and expect you to forget.

Neverrrrrrrrr everrrrrrrr underestimate how much God is protecting you from things you don’t even know about.

Can my parents stop getting older while I figure things out for the next 5 years it’s actually so unfair

do u ever listen to a song and remember exactly what life was when u first heard it

We have a very serious shortage of normal people. There's a shortage of sense. A general lack of shame, and don't get me started on integrity.

I wanna be in love with someone who is equally as in love with me and I don’t want it to just be love. I want us to be best friends and to adore and respect each other and to fit together like puzzle pieces. Tbh I have faith I will find that.

until it happens to you, you will think you are very careful, very responsible, very smart, very religious, very mature, very private, very etc.