It takes a village but you must be a villager for a village to show up for you.

“I love you in a way that would worry a therapist and thrill a poet”

Don’t even think you guys understand how dark that is, how can your life PEAK in your teenage years 😭😭😭

Couples have dated for 10 years then got married and divorced after a year. Strangers have fucked on the 1st date and now are celebrating their 15th anniversary. Some people get married after 6 months and are still happily married. Others do everything "right," follow every rule,

The world has a short memory for your goodness but a long memory for your mistakes. Don’t waste your life trying to please them.

I highly recommend getting yourself a “how can I help” partner and not “you will be fine” partner.

you don’t realise how young 17 is until you’re not 17 anymore, and when you see someone 17 - you see how young they are, they’re silly, they have school, they are kids. somehow when i was 17 i thought this was it but that was barely anything.

genz literally saw the transition era right in front of their eyes

I met a first daughter who told me she loves men who don’t just accept anything, men who don’t get bossed around, men who lead and she follows. Whats funny is, this babe loves to boss people around and when you don’t do what she says, her mood changes. Made me understand

You feel more confident in places where you are stranger. Where no one knows about you

I think one of the healthiest things I've learned is that you should let people reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. Let them reintroduce their soul. Familiarity shouldn’t be a cage. Love them for who they are now, not just who they were then.

All men in the universe know their role, except the human male

Don’t borrow shame from the past. You are really not that person anymore and you simply didn't know better. No reason to beat yourself up for it. All you can do is do better.

One of my friends has an incredibly inspirational family. She, her siblings, and their parents all genuinely like each other, and they spend an absurd amount of time together, even into adulthood. This morning I asked her what her parents did differently. She thought for a

Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.

Relationships are so beautiful when you and your partner are actually good friends. You show up together, share inside jokes, talk openly, have fun, and totally vibe like besties. They shouldn’t replace your actual friends but it’s so amazing when the dynamic isn't just romantic.

im not the same person you went to school with

please date a man who believes in romance & provider mindset. like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can. you deserve all of that

waitress: would you like more water me: yes thank you waitress: [picks up my cup to fill it] me: thank you! waitress: [puts my cup down] me: thank you!

it’s incredibly insane how all women understand what she’s talking about but men seem to just not get it. the male brain is interesting.