A child who grows up hearing about your sacrifices doesn't feel loved. They feel like a debt. Having a child was your decision. Nurturing and protecting them is your responsibility. "Sacrifice" does not belong anywhere in this. Call it that and you have already turned your kids

One thing I hate at this grown age is somebody who acts like cause & effect does not exist ! Yes your actions caused this outcome ! So why are you acting surprised & playing victim ?

My love language fr

I’m fucking sick HE YANKED HER HAND

IM SOBBING NOBODY TALK TO ME—

Most toxic friendships don’t end with a fight. They end with you finally realizing you’ve been overgiving to someone who would never do the same for you.

friendship is something you maintain, not something you assume will always be there. when effort disappears, so does the level of closeness that used to exist.

Happy 420 🧚

hated all the mean girls in high school

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Btw you have every right to call me out as a friend if you don't feel loved or cared for by me, it's not entitlement, I owe it to you, that's what I signed up for when we started our friendship.

adult friendships have taught me that sometimes the person you regard as a “close friend” isn’t really your friend. and that’s okay, take your L and move on.

an eldest daughter once said being the firstborn means you’re automatically irritated by incompetence. not because you’re harsh, but because you were never given the room to be incompetent yourself. the daughters who know… know.

Take it personal. At this age, people are 100% aware.

ICE is taking girls to hotels so they can rape them. We are not angry enough.

Dating a first born daughter means you have 0.2 seconds to help. After that she’s climbing the counter moving the ladder and nearly dying because you took forever to help.😭

Using your PTO just to stay home & decompress is a vibe too.

adulting really humbles you. i finally understand why some people go quiet, stop posting, or just disappear from social media.