It's not what your husband does to you that will your personhood, but rather what you do with what he does to you amzn.to/1Qy4J6f

Have you enabled your husband's selfishness to grow into a monster?amzn.to/1Qy4J6f EDM

Trying to be his fantasy wife not only hurts him, it hurts you. It diminishes the person God has made you to be because your husband has now become your god. In a destructive marriage, when real wife and fantasy wife collide, it is never pretty. #EDM dld.bz/hy9DY

Do you think God is asking you to try harder to become your husband's fantasy wife (which you will never succeed at) or does God have you in your husband's life for a far more radical and redemptive purpose? EDM dld.bz/hy9DY

The only person who should be totally dependent on someone else to meet all of his or her needs is an infant.amzn.to/1Qy4J6f #EDM

People who have been deeply sinned against or betrayed don't want mere lip service or someone superficially going through the motions of change anymore than God does, they want to see the real effort and genuine change. #EDM dld.bz/hy9DY

When one person seeks to be the sole source of feedback on the value, worth, strengths, weaknesses, personhood, and identity of the other, it can become quite destructive to that individual. EDM dld.bz/hy9DY

Indifference says how you feel or what you want doesn't matter to me. amzn.to/1Qy4J6f EDM

Emotional abuse is like 1,000 bee stings that over time poisons your joy, breaks your heart and crushes your spirit amzn.to/1Qy4J6f #EDM

Indifference says you are not a person to love, but an object to use. amzn.to/1Qy4J6f #EDM

Some individuals come into a romantic relationship starving, looking for someone to nourish them. #EDM dld.bz/hy9DY

Once trust is broken, it is not easily repaired. It takes a consistent effort from the one who broke the trust to earn it back, as well as a willingness to forgive by the one betrayed. EDM dld.bz/hy9DY

It's crucial that we see clearly where we are right now if we want to change where we're heading in the future. EDM dld.bz/hy9DY

It's impossible to have a close loving relationship with someone you can't trust, can't talk with, or won't take a look at himself when he hurts you. EDM dld.bz/hy9DY

sometimes we're only motivated to change when the pain of staying is greater than the fear of making the change amzn.to/1Qy4J6f EDM

God values marriage, but he's also concerned for your safety and sanity in the midst of a destructive and/or dangerous marriage #conquer #EDM dld.bz/hxwCs

Good marriages don't just happen, even if partners were madly in love when they first got married amzn.to/1Qy4J6f

God has a more glorious answer for wives who are abused than submit, try harder and endure suffering. amzn.to/1Qy4J6f #EDM

Sometimes destructive individuals expect amnesty once they say they're sorry for what they've done. amzn.to/1Qy4J6f #EDM

If we want to change a destructive marriage, we must start by naming what we see correctly. amzn.to/1Qy4J6f EDM