If slavery, apartheid and other oppressive systems only affected Black women, black men would have been the biggest upholders and supporters of those systems.

You don’t have any children, you don’t want to go all out for the children in your family, you don’t want to organize and host the gathering AND you don’t want to help contribute to someone else hosting and it doesn’t feel like Christmas? Really? Go figure

2026.03.20 BTS IS COMING

Too young to retire, but old enough to have your childhood in a museum 😭😭😒

Please spread the word If you spend R300 or more at SPAR, you get a slip/voucher that allows you to buy school shoes for only R75. Even if you don't need school shoes yourself, please don't throw the slip away. You can use it to help someone else, donate the shoes, or give the

MTV officially shut down its 24-hour music channels on 31st Dec, 2025. They ended their final broadcast with 'Video killed the radio star' by The Buggles, the very first video broadcasted by MTV on August 1st, 1981.

"Daughters are expendable when lineage is at stake, but indispensable when labor is required" is a BAR

3 things i don't like when talking to me: Don't talk to me like I'm your child. Don't talk to me like l'm suppose to be scared of you. And never try to talk to me like I'm stupid. I get hot quick

When a man is enmeshed with his mother and not held accountable he becomes entitled. Entitlement leads to high levels of narcissistic traits. Here's Why:

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This is why it’s not only important to be educated, independent and have a good support structure via your family/friends, it’s important to also do the internal healing of whatever traumatised you before you get into a serious relationship as a woman, because many WILL use your

I respect the hell out of the women in Korea and the brave feminists leading the 4B movement. "I will not give birth to a life that will discriminate against my gender. My own flesh and blood must not become a blade turned against me. If the world born from my body oppresses me,

In your twenties, you will fall in love with a Jehovah’s Witness who will try to convince you to convert so you both can get married. It is very important that you RUN and never look back.

Soon we’ll have a whole generation of grandfathers who can’t change a diaper, cook a meal, or name their own medications without help, but nobody writes think-pieces about their failure to whittle, hunt, or die heroically in wars they never fought. “Skills” only become sacred

‘uMhlangano is a queer-led gathering born from our shared longing for connection, belonging & meaning beyond commercialised, exclusionary spaces. We’re co-creating space for reflection, music & conversation, honouring agnostic spiritual expression. quicket.co.za/events/355938-…

aquarius season is a good reminder that as everything in this life is political, so are your silence and the things you choose to not do. you might think as yourself as neutral when you're in fact a cruel coward (and you'll be reminded in time how wrong this is).

Call me stuck up or judgmental but I will NOT hang out with women who are not good moms. If you're not good to your own children, neglect them, choose substances over them, then I will keep my distance from you because that is a HUGE red flag to me 🚩 how am I supposed to trust

Narcissists make you sad in a way that’s hard to explain. It’s a dull, persistent sadness that comes from exhaustion, invalidation, and confusion.

Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.