My therapist told me: “When a person grows up feeling unseen, they learn to love by over-giving. They pour into everyone else, hoping that, one day, someone will finally pour back into them. So they become the care taker. The fixer. The one who shows up, even when no one shows

Y'all be fumbling a bag and I'm not talking about money. I'm talking about fumbling people of value. Fumbling people that you meet once in a lifetime, people you don't get twice, energies you can’t find elsewhere, people that'll sacrifice for you, love you for you, fight for you,

I take responsibility when I'm wrong, but I will not apologize for responding to disrespect. If you start the fire, do not pretend to be the victim.

People ask "Will you date somebody like yourself?" I would fucking go to war for somebody who loved like I do..

Normalize bed rotting on the weekends and enjoying the peace of your home. You don’t have to go out and spend money every single weekend.

I much prefer someone who is evil with their chest than someone who pretends to be a good person when they know they're not

Stop calling it ‘insecurity’ when a woman notices disrespect. That’s called awareness.

i hate yelling. i hate getting out of character. i hate arguing. i hate being mad. i hate everything that makes me negative.

I think the classiest revenge in the world is never letting someone have access to you again and moving on peacefully.

ppl want you to be something for them they could never be for you… then get mad when you match energy

"she’s crazy" now tell them what you did.

I don’t know how to be fake. I just become very quiet around energy I can’t vibe with.

when people are so predictable all you can do is laugh 😭😭😭

One thing bout me… ima always let you do what you would rather do.

As much as I hate paying bills, I thank God every day that I’m even in the position to take care of myself.

You are not "healed" just because you cut everyone off, blocked your exes, and sit in your room alone making aesthetic videos about "protecting your peace." True healing is only tested in the presence of triggers, conflict, and intimacy. Being peaceful because you actively avoid

I don’t have no get back for anybody. Life be eating y’all up inside. Your mind be eating you up. Truly not happy from within. I don’t have to do shit but keep being me.

dealing with an overly difficult person is exhausting in a way that’s hard to explain. it’s not even the issue itself, it’s the constant resistance to understanding, like every conversation turns into something heavier than it needs to be.

Normalize leaving a loser with a loser