If it feels like it's a red flag, it's a red flag.

Punishments in a dynamic still require consent. Safe words should be respected during a punishment.

Reminder that there is nothing wrong with being kinky. You're still an amazing, wonderful person, kinks and all.

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You don't need to be into every kink. Limits are normal and healthy.

Being kinky isn't a one size fits all thing. Things will change depending on those involved. Some things will be for you and some things won't.

It's always odd seeing the biggest consumers and commenters of porn be quick to make fun of and shame the creators. For those making content, some people hate seeing others being successful. You're awesome and beautiful just the way you are! Anyone would be lucky to know you!

Whether it be normal interactions or kinky ones, if it feels inappropriate to you, then it's inappropriate.

It's a good idea to figure out your "hierarchy of needs" when it comes to your kinks and kinky relationship goals. This might help you avoid getting caught in the "time sink fallacy" and make it easier to find something that is better suited for you and your needs.

Things are fluid. Sometimes you'll enjoy something only for it to become something you hate. This even happens with kinks. It's why strong communication and understanding are important to any dynamic.

Remember these are just fun kinks. They don't make you a bad person. They don't make you disgusting. It's for hot fun. Don't do things you're not comfortable with. You don't have to do everything. Focus on having fun and being yourself. They don't like it You don't need them

The more specific you are with what you enjoy, the better your scenes will be. I know it can be embarrassing, but a lot of things are subjective. What's a light tap to you could be a hard slap to them.

Boundaries are normal and are different for everyone. It's hard for many to be assertive about them, but be upfront about your boundaries. If the person reacts negatively to them, then weed them out.

Doesn't matter if you're a sub, Dom, or something else, we all have needs. Don't be afraid to express them. Your physical and emotional well being are important.

People can be overbearing and take things the wrong way. Be yourself. Set the boundaries you need. If you're flirty, be flirty. If you like to tease, be a tease. Stay true to yourself. Not everyone will vibe with it. Those people just aren't a good fit. That's ok

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Being sexual or kinky, especially online, can take a lot out of you. People will make assumptions and can treat you poorly. You're valid. You're a good person. Block people you don't vibe with. Take time for yourself.

Take your mental well being seriously. Take your health seriously. Being kinky is a lot of fun, but take the time you need for yourself. The people who have problems with it are showing you they're not worth your time.

The things you post don't define who you are. The things that turn you on don't define who you are. There are kinky people from all walks of life. Don't feel like you're any less of an awesome person because you're a sub, Dom, gooner, creator, or anything in between.

Your body is yours and yours alone. You have the right to say no to anything you don't like. Don't let anyone make you think otherwise. Do what works for you and cut out anyone that doesn't respect that.