Women would gladly financially support their men if need be but only if said men understood the sacrifice and not feel entitled. They also have to have paid their dues. They also have to be masculine and drop the 50/50 mindset: it’s a farce that no high value woman will tolerate

Yet if I still have to argue with you about my last two posts or explain further then unfortunately the post was not intended for you. You will never get it! Carry on with your life. If you need more education, try using Google. Thanks 😊

Men need to start paying women for the intangible work we do especially with the kids. My entire calendar is full of concerts, drs appointments, play dates, school play, sports activities, birthday parties etc. yet Busta is driving into the sunset. This shit is work! Goodness!

Yet you want to talk about 50/50. The kind of psychological/mental load that most women have to carry + work + domestic activities. No one sees it, everything na money. And even women day bring money join too. Some men go even say no househelp but you wan chop moi moi. Joker! 😂

Even deciding what food needs to be cooked on what day, what lunches the kids have to take to school, ensuring their hair is made/cut. Teeth brushing and proper hygiene. These are all responsibilities managed by most women amongst other things. It’s a really tough job!

Women really need to be applauded. Men too for the things they do as well but truthfully, remove a man and a woman would thrive, remove a woman and men always look scruffy and raggedy and thin and confused and unkempt. Don’t drink the cool aid, men really need women to survive.

It’s the same brainwashing strategy that “whites” have sold to the world for the longest. They know they need “blacks” but if they can deceive the world into thinking otherwise then we ll be at their mercy. When indeed it’s the other way around. 🤦‍♀️ Ladies get in formation! 😉

My friend just asked me what I wanted for my birthday. Dec 10th. I told him foodstuff. Rice, goat meat, chicken, fish, rice, oil etc. He could pick one, some or send me the money to get them. Lord knows I wasn’t joking. Make I venture see candle or cake first. Hiss! #Jenszen38

Let me be the first to confess. “I am overwhelmed!, with my life, my schedule, these bills, my children, the responsibilities, holding it all together, hoping for the best, trying to be considerate, emotional intelligence and everything else. I am utterly overwhelmed!”.

Beyond grateful to my tribe for the birthday wishes. Na God go bless ona. Ona do well. I receive all the prayers and love with warmth and joy. 🙏 💋

My best friend took me out last night in the streets of Lagos, all I can say is that BBL has got to go! What??????

Today marks 18 years that I have been married. Even as I type this, I find it unbelievable.

It’s not easy to be in 100 places at the same time, but as parents it’s never too early to begin to teach our children about dealing with people and being careful. Predators can come in many forms. They are usually known and close with us.

In 2025, my testimonies have no days off. Amen!

Call your people, check on everyone. Life right now is in a delicate space. People are hanging by strands of thread. Check on them! 🙏

The amount of chaos and noise that goes inside any production before the world sees it is so enormous and complex. Truly the audience has no idea. #film #Storytelling

Married to Medicine is a total medicine 😂. This show really has to run for the next 50 years because my gosh! If it ain’t Heavenly it’s Dr G, hell, could be Apollo or Dr Simone. You can’t make this shit up #Married2Med

Even the determining what everyone will eat, deciding what’s in the lunch boxes and responding to these emails from school and PTA, all na work. Women need to be appreciated abeg. Wetin?

The emotional labor of pretending to be less than who really are, playing it “small” just so people say you are nice is what’s burning you out. Stop performing for people who benefit from your smallness.

The emotional labor of pretending to be less than you really are, playing it “small” just so people say you are nice is what’s burning you out. Stop performing for people who benefit from your smallness!