someone taking the time to explain how they are feeling hurt as a result of our actions means they value our presence in their life. they’re giving us a chance to show up in a way that is comfortable for both parties. when people stop explaining to us how they feel, they’ll exit.

My ka-OAhan at 7AM. My competitive ass won't let this go 😭 Lemme get that perfect score 😠

A soft person should be with a soft person, beasts of no nation should be with themselves.

me tomorrow:

'i'm tired of trading abundance for the illusion of safety'

something feels so magical right now. i have an abundance of gratitude and happiness in my heart which is all coming out in how everyone is treating me and others 🥹

I think one thing that men don’t understand about us is that we imagine what our future would look like with you based on how you treat us today. When men do something that upsets us, it’s not just that one action but the entire principle or value system that it exposes about you

Time does not heal all wounds. That’s why many people in their 80s are miserable, regretful, and bitter. Having someone listen with empathy heals wounds. Taking steps outside your comfort zone heals wounds. Letting yourself cry heals wounds. Physical touch from someone you trust…

hindi ko po alam actually

oh wow i just realized that vietnam is my tenth country

Don't personalize or internalize other people’s reactions. You can really be kind and respectful when communicating with someone and they would still be defensive because they’re hearing something about themselves that they're not ready to receive.

ag akong girentahan ug motor: this is a one way street

also her: *counterflows*

5ever gonna be cursing internet in vietnam

motorbike rental is so cheap here wtf

free him