Mastering the art of being silent even when there’s a lot to be said >>>>>>

Nicki 🫧🪷 yeah, that imbalance is frustrating. being able to talk sexual but shutting down when it comes to actual feelings just shows a lack of emotional maturity. real connection needs both vulnerability and desire. without the first, the second feels empty.

To be seen, heard & considered.

I love friendships that influence me to be kinder, smarter and healthier. I love when people have a positive impact on me.

I don't get over shit, I just get past it. I haven't healed from a lot of shit, I just accepted it for what it is and keep it pushing.

I am that girl who genuinely appreciate small things and simple efforts.

Don’t make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you are being disrespected.

Conflict isn't the red flag; avoidance after conflict is. A healthy partner can handle hard conversations without punishing you for having feelings.

you are the main character of your life, so act like it.

I'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping on what you can't control. Everyone is going to do what they want, regardless of your feelings. Just control what you can control.

got to

No one talks enough about how exhausting it is to continuously be the one who “gives grace”. In a lot of instances, you’re giving grace at the expense of putting someone else’s needs before your own.

Rebuilding myself brick by brick, piece by piece 🧡

Who else has this crazy faith that everything is gonna work out?

Enjoying moments and not sharing them with the world

either you WANT to or you DON’T

i realized my love language is reciprocity, i need what i give.

once i sit down and say what i don’t like / not going for , that’s me telling you what’s nonnegotiable FOR ME !

Once you proceed as if it was NEVER discussed I’m not bringing it up again. I see and It’s noted 📝

need to take my hair down but don’t wanna look like a lil boy for 2 weeks 😭