Your uncles and aunties who have grown children should look up to them for resource harvesting, so you can focus more on tending your own folk. People are naughty when they make excuses for their own children, who care nothing about your folk, but place burdens on you each time.

A friendly face will flip at the Knowledge of a knife at the back! Be careful!

That truly awesome feeling when wifey wakes you up early in the morning to announce the result of the pregnancy test. "Babe, I'm pregnant!" Dunno whether to laugh, cry, sit up or jump. Then the culminating moment when you receive Baby to your arms! May everyone find their joy!

Influence doesn't nag, isn't clandestine and won't need to oppress with force & aggression. It convinces with objective positioning that opens the eyes & minds of respondents to better appeals and meaningful approaches & choices to delivering the desired outcomes. Everyone wins!

The stark reality of succession planning is building performing teams that'll get replaced in time. Everyone will go; you too, but we keep things smart enough to procure competence over sentiment. We raise protégés, even our children who'll come into the space to run life better.

Make do with whatever help you've enjoyed. Don't feel entitled. Some may never help you again, but they're not bad. You too may not get the chance to repay. Stop whining about sad days, people, bla, bla, bla... God won't punish any, just cos they don't help you when you expect.

Not BORN AGAIN, you really won't seem to understand much of what you're missing until you begin that journey in Christ, then you realize there's no life otherwise. I got saved since 1989 & for these 36 years I can't backside into anything else. Christ is so real & all I want now!

Harsh truth about SPOUSES... None is INFINITE! One who prays is horrible in bed; badass in bed is poor at business! Business mogul just can't cook what you want & chef extraordinaire nags a lot . Shitty, but it's what it is. Complete them or complain endlessly! Sorry OK bye!

On your course through grit and grind will come the hunger to have someone hold up your head, look you in the eyes and speak kindness, love, truth and assurance to your soul. That comes scarce, but it could become the very life that gives you impetus to keep it keeping on!

You call in for audience with me, I admit you respectfully ignoring my calls just to hear you. It's really a tight schedule, yet you take all the time receiving all your "important" calls till you squander time. Bro, face your calls. I'd go do stuff & we won't sit again. NO TIME!

This is deep... 📌📌

Everyone just needs patience, kindness & tenderness. Strong people put up a facade just to hold others up & keep it together, then sneak into solitude & let it all out. I've seen the strongest people, shattered & deeply emotional. People aren't machines! Hold a hand today!

Whether it's work, economy, weather, news, trends, relationships or otherwise, everyone seems to be going through A LOT. Let's be mindful how we handle ourselves so we don't infringe on other people's "A LOT" with our own to avoid what we can't carry. Might be more than we think!

What ticks it most for me about the Noah's story, his Ark & the Flood isn't just about God's precise word to him, but his strict application of DISCIPLINE, COMMITMENT & OBEDIENCE! He followed God's word by faith to the letter in strict precision & avoided stories that touch!

Wealth may provide you capital, a headstart, leverage & other advantages in life, but without STRATEGY, STRUCTURE, CREDIBILITY & CLASS, it cannot guarantee sustainable success. In time, one who builds upon these definable standards will overtake another who only gathered wealth.

Dear Son, You don't need anyone's approval to make history! Seeking their validation will water down impetus and demean delivery! It mustn't count. Take that fiery torch and go light up your world! Make the news Champ!The world must celebrate you someday. We'll watch you win!

Take a moment in Lent to reflect on how your life would have turned out if circumstances weren't different - a thief, begger, refugee, prisoner, convict or anything on life's counter side. Mercy brought you this far for a purpose. That should humble you. All pride is useless!

Before you LOVE, be sure your partner understands it. You too. People think love is about spending big & doing favors, feeling butterflies & they smile at you "somehow", chat & share midnight exclusives... Love is Sacrifice! Like Christ, how much can you lay down of yourself?

The "perfect" spouse only soon reveals their balloon side - all gain & no life. Nothing meaningful ever means anything to them, just vanity. Be the gap filler. You're in! Write the blank pages, mentor, pray & love patiently until results show. God hates divorce, you should too!

In 2005, an imperfect duo, my wife & I united, broken, poor, without beholden resources, only God & hope for a brighter future. Beaten by the years, 21 years on, we're waxing stronger in this common bond of unity. Perfect love doesn't unite the perfect, but perfects the united!