I’m the person that actually wants more for you, not from you.

car rides by yourself with loud music... are good for the soul

Just apologize when u know that u f’d up! All of that manipulative behavior & being mad at a person for being mad at u when they have a legit reason to be is just weird ish... People love to say they grown until it's time to hold themselves accountable! #MommyClubShowmaxS3reunion

Thandazani bafethu. Trust & believe in umthandazo. There's a lot of things standing in your way, including yourself; umthandazo forces you to be honest in your declarations, hopes, fears, aspirations & intentions. It is in that honesty where you hand over for it to be addressed.

I can not emphasize how important it is to find a partner who believes in you so ferociously that on the days you feel like you can't, they remind you that you can.

this old lady just said to me “growth is realizing that someone’s inconsistency is a sign to step back, not a challenge to prove your worth” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.

A cheater today will be a cheater tomorrow. A liar while dating will still be dishonest when you’re married. The truth is simple the man you see now is the man you’ll get later. Marriage doesn’t transform a bad boyfriend into a good husband. If he’s disloyal, careless, or

l am not the same person outside of work and my coworkers are not allowed to know that person.

1.Shoprite has stamps you buy from R20 or put R200 a month it will give R2200 in November. 2. Pep money account R20 a day and it will give you R7200 on 31 December or R50 a day. 3.Some butcheries offer cards that you can top up from as little as R20. 3. Gift cards from

empathy burnout is real. it happens when you feel everyone else’s pain so deeply, you forget your own limits. you give and give, but your heart quietly runs out of energy. and suddenly, caring starts to feel heavy instead of natural. it’s okay to step back and protect your peace

if it bothers me, it bothers me. i can't control the shi that upsets me, but don't make me feel dumb for explaining my feelings to you because you don't see my point of view...

I think one of the most important qualities you need in a partner, is a partner who is considerate. Someone who can look at things from your point of view, who considers how you’re feeling when things are rough, someone who creates a space for you to feel safe and vice versa

Mariam speaks like she has something in her mouth. #UltimateGirlsTripAfricareunion

march, sharpen my intentions and cut ties with confusion, filter my thoughts with love until peace begins to drip from my energy. protect my spirit from fear that travels faster than truth and allow me to release what lives beyond my reach. keep my integrity louder than worry.

I don't know who needs to hear this but normalize moving on silently when someone doesn't want you. You don't need to send them long messages and beg them to see your worth. Let them lose you and find out once you're gone what they lost.

You cannot make sense to a person who only comprehends things at their own level of perception. No matter how much you explain, argue, or try. Save your energy

My biggest life lesson- Always carry your struggles with a touch of dignity, if you vent all the time, you may just end up crying on the wrong shoulders. People will treat you differently if they know too much about you. Familiarity breeds contempt, don’t forget!

I’ve never been so desperate for a new job Tjo. 😭😭 like God please??? I’m begging you?