Become a man sooner than later.

Don’t wait until you’re in your late 20s to grow up.

If you live with your parents, pay some bills.

Help with groceries.

Pay for gas.

Wash your clothes, make your own food, clean your room.

Then work hard to live on your own as soon as…

You cannot rely on those who struggle to admit hard truths to themselves to speak the truth to you.

As they deceive inwards, so they do outwards.

Being attacked is a sign that you are important enough to be a target. You should relish the attention and the chance to prove yourself.

Provision is not in a woman's DNA. No matter how kind, virtuous, good-natured you think your woman is, she'll snap if she has to shoulder the financial burden of the family.

One day, your very understanding woman will speak her mind.

Never flaunt your wealth, and carefully conceal the degree to which it has bought influence.

Make alliances with those below you, and elevate them to positions of power to secure their support in times of need.

Our grandfathers knew that a masculine mindset was our buffer against rejection.

An abundant mindset protects men from oneitis.

A man should not have 'one' (1):

- 1 woman

- 1 child

- 1 vehicle

- 1 house

- 1 land

- 1 source of income

Own many.

Kill ONEITIS.

#ManDay

Never be so foolish as to believe that you are stirring up admiration by flaunting the qualities that raise you above others.

You are a man.

Pleasure, comfort, and entertainment destroys a man’s soul.

You need pain, struggle, and hardships.

An easy life is a difficult life.

Never put yourself in a position where you'll financially depend on a woman. Women are not nice people.

When I talk to men who are geniuses or more well read in a specific domain than I am, I never try to pretend I understand them when I don’t because I know I’m not smart enough or knowledgeable enough within the given context to fool them. So I say “no, I don’t know” - yet most…

8 rare traits I see in every high performer:

🦉🧘🏿‍♂️HARPHOKHE🖤🧘🏿‍♂️ Press the juice from the leaves of this plant on the affected part after taking your bath.

Also, boil the leaves with water and drink it twice daily.

Nobody cares about you.

People care about what you can offer.

Once they stop getting value from you

They will all disappear.

Learn to survive alone.

“We are pragmatists. We don't stick to any ideology. Does it work? Let's try it, and if it does work, fine, let's continue it. If it doesn't work, toss it out, try another one. We are not enamoured with any ideology.”

— Lee Kuan Yew

Behind every successful man is his sweat, his tears, his pain, his failures, & above all else, his determination to succeed.

Keep going!

I’ll never forget the day I got baptised. What an experience
The pastor gently submerged me beneath the holy water and when I arose.. I came out the same. Nothing had changed. All theatrics. Waste of time. Would not recommend. 0/10

Your first mistake was dating a content creator
In her mind she’s in Hollywood being chased by paparazzi. In reality, you’re paying for her meal just so it gets 93 likes on Instagram
Your ancestors hate you.

Let them miss you. Sometimes they take you for granted because they think you’re always available.

Arguing in good faith with someone arguing in bad faith is a foolish kind of charity.

You don't play truth games with people playing status games.