why shit always gotta be a lesson when it come to me like why can't i genuinely be happy?😂😭

nobody apologized for how they treated me, they just blame me for how I reacted.

I’ve realised I’m very disposable to people…and I can’t lie it fucking hurts..considering I hold certain people so highly…I’m done with it now….just let me go. ..

I get scared when things go well for me

Imma try one more time but honestly if shit don’t work out I’m looking overseas 🤷🏾‍♂️

And honestly when things go “well” it typically means disaster is around the corner 🫩

you communicated with them enough, it’s time to move on

Unfortunately there are no benefits to being a good person.

Unfortunately, I'm a distant person, so if I text or call you a lot, I really do like you.

I think I lost my spark. I don’t talk as much, I keep to myself, and I’ve mastered the art of distance. It’s not that I’m mad or bitter. I just don’t have the energy to show up the way I used to. Somewhere along the way, I slipped into this nonchalant phase.

Maturing is realizing that men are just as bad, if not worse than women when it comes to holding themselves accountable

Seeing / watching how people treat you will do that

I’m n it about to keep making myself available for mfs that don’t do the same for me 😒 I’m honestly nice asf until I’m not fr.

Literally just went through this w somebody. Said they wanted to link up. Always flaked and gave excuses. Got mad and deflected when I called him out on it. I told him if he wanted to he would. He couldn’t say shit 😂

no point in communicating if nothing changes.

Gaslighting at its finest

Somebody told me sometimes being a loner is a trauma response. When you grow up with people not showing up for you, walking away, or creating chaos in your life… you learn real quick that the only person you can depend on is YOU. So being alone becomes your safe place. Your

Breadcrumbing is when someone keeps showing small, inconsistent displays of interest in order to maintain attention from you when they actually have no intention of being in a relationship with you. It is emotional manipulation!

For Example; •Fails to reply to texts or chats for several days or weeks, then send a few long messages without explaining why they temporarily disappeared. •Imply that they'd love to see you but ignore your requests to make an actual plan