A lot of adults don't better themselves??? and have no intention of growth or healing?? just living their lives with horrible communication skills, lack of emotional intelligence, selfishness, and hurt feelings like FOREVER?????

I envision SO much for my life and I can feel sumn in my chest that tells me Im gonna get it and tbh thats all I need

Please get addicted to thinking positively in your life

You ever been so at peace with your life that you dgaf about anything? what people say about you, who's mad at you, who's not talking to you. that’s pretty much where I've been lately, just nonchalant. i shrug about everything.

five years from now, i will be the girl of my dreams... financially secure, glowing, successful & happy

If I'm being honest, half the things I went through are in fact because of me: my lack of discipline, not listening to my gut feelings, and my poor decision-making.

Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.

. I will marry soft . I will marry right . I will marry godly . I will marry romantic . I will marry wealthy . I will marry a provider . I will marry good character . I will thoroughly enjoy my blissful marriage

Tomorrow is Monday. I walk into this new week with peace. No stress. No drama. No setbacks. Just back-to-back blessings and good news.

not everyone you love is meant to stay long enough to see the life you imagined together. some people come to wake parts of you up, show you what you’re capable of feeling, and raise the standard for what you accept.

Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence.. The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.

Never ignore me. You can tell me you don't want to talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case may be. Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.

As independent as I am, I still love to be babied. Acts of service are how I feel loved. I don’t care about money, just lighten my load. I’m too prideful to ask for help, but when you take the initiative and handle things without me saying a word… that means everything.

Not everyone should be allowed in your home, and even fewer people should know where you live.

The reach back ALWAYS makes me feel like I’m THAT girl! Never gets old. 🙌🏾

One thing I learned long ago, PLAN YOUR OWN BIRTHDAY! Even if it’s just you celebrating alone. Don’t let nobody stop your shine on your day!!

From my dad, I learned that real men do not complain about being providers. They actually like being one.

I'm addicted to learning because the right information can change your life.

A big part of becoming an adult is unlearning a lot of the shit you were taught by people who didn’t know what they were doing either.