If it isnโt laundry itโs the dishes. If it isnโt the dishes the bathroom needs to be clean, fridge needs to be stocked or floors need to be mopped. Itโs never ending ๐
You canโt expect a village to show up for you if youโre unwilling to be a villager.
As much as you can, show up for people, even when you donโt immediately need them. Build your village brick by brick
my therapist said "if you're resting but you're guilting or shaming yourself for not being productive the whole time, that's not actually rest." she told me this is why i'm so chronically tired. hoping this helps someone like it helped me