This is SUPER insightful and yet another reason the way you find love is by being more social The chemistry u develop interacting with someone over time without pressure IRL makes many “checklist” items irrelevant

Whenever I dislike anyone I ask "what does disliking this person reveal about what I dislike about myself?" and pretty much always find the answer there. Your brain is really only able to spend mental energy disliking someone if it's working through something for itself

i feel like the entirety of everyone's politics has just become about "owning" people with bad opinions. you're laughing at a man's horrible death because he made a shitty misogynistic comment .....

Men are purely logical and not emotionally driven 😂

this is like unironically how human society functioned before land ownership

This dichotomy doesn't exist. Sex workers can be mothers & the mother can wear bikinis and take photos. Women are multifaceted human beings. Pick me's are women who uphold misogyny & throw women under the bus for male validation. A woman in a dress with her child isn't a pick me.

during the rape of nanking japanese soldiers came to Ginling Girls College, where refugees from all over the city were sheltering, and demanded 10 women to be handed over as "comfort women" (sex slaves) A group of prostitutes volunteered to be taken in order to spare the

Incorrect. Emotional maturity is when you feel your emotions fully until they’re processed—without letting them control your actions. Emotional immaturity is when you avoid them and let them control you unconsciously.

Shame has always been one of the most effective tools used to control women especially in the name of modesty, morality and religion. For women,shame is stitched into everything. Not because we are shameful but because someone somewhere benefits when we believe we are. Shame is a